英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。& F8 }# S- B* c( T* A: l" k
7 @& e" j7 ^: u# N# ^" |据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 m! Q! ^3 ?5 v( Q9 N
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 8 D' V( G2 J% m4 Q* j7 }+ b ! a7 z# C p% y) Z- r根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 r8 W# t" F5 f! w
5 ~7 }' L3 r2 u7 L! U0 A8 N9 K研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 7 ?; Y- v/ b, N6 ?+ E( |: `( A1 {3 D1 u5 F' k2 R4 [1 `
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ! J+ D# ?& @+ R2 G7 C& P5 @3 x# Q9 ^% D; B. p% z1 ~
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! `, d+ X/ I0 sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : O& X0 |7 u8 N" E* C
- U8 I+ q3 q& J" p( Y$ X9 ABut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 c8 O& l$ n; R! {' J3 N6 e, t+ j3 O: a. S ~
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) v$ O7 K2 x' S: i( S% s. O# a. r% K
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; c5 G0 B% g! \3 e 5 N5 r( |7 { c2 j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + ]9 V9 Z, F2 U
/ x# o* R' Q; S, v; |$ r$ {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 y) @% K* m4 b 1 o- [- @* v& k- V# QUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & P+ Z; e: m- K/ o# m
+ n7 w) K5 `3 M3 Y$ Z" |Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 L# |* J1 E! G# T' ^) }" e$ [1 W' `& X# k! t; s& n i
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 H: C1 c, ]5 P8 j
! m3 n% }" X1 W! iThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 q- t6 R) q) w9 U3 ~! d/ ] ( V- {: p l0 K! P& }2 V! o9 ?The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , i' \. t1 e& r! V7 J7 u4 B) ~( o: n9 e
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # s0 Q' M& f: K4 |' h' v" {
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) B: y4 m2 }' `% j& q t" N* m
( o5 l1 l3 t. ~3 C: ]" p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ |. e& B2 `9 G& D : U1 L: V5 k$ S+ n8 I( k2 z1 ~% t"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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