英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 P2 p* _ A, O$ D
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 ]4 s/ X* X4 E+ \7 w% L$ r
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 c( `. ]: t5 P& O2 _/ ?: [/ U: ~. f( [
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 $ i* S p& r' l 3 e/ _$ S. `& ~) B6 } _0 c' h. i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 }4 `5 P& U, }" o+ Y) L# \
4 U. Y+ {! U' o. P" p, S: V# x u& @9 QWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' $ m+ ?8 ]% v6 c9 T- M . Q' Z3 ~/ U& g- Z% e0 X5 GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # v) I! e+ K$ k# J1 H; L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 n# C8 A. V B, z+ |" H, w; g2 h
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % w' Z* h% q. m/ p- Y- t% V, ` # R& d k' o1 Y# \The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : P$ P7 T; |/ ~" E+ d& V8 s
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( t9 M1 `: M; I& M' E- A' v2 P2 X: X ?1 i& a, ^
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + [$ v! R E$ G' |) |" {3 o) p( a5 |
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % L0 H) t% ~/ E) Y& b: G' l
/ [5 I2 I! H. KUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 a" r2 g8 [( l2 P% F; A7 H
I8 |4 C H1 d: K4 c* s! z4 cSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) E% L" _: v! B' z6 c# ?+ b% e# \6 U% i f, {
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . i# u5 b: V0 y1 E . w! M; S- L8 V6 K$ `% jThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 t! i& x6 P+ B) @+ N
& d; Z6 f! \4 C& z7 k8 PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 Q8 l2 T9 ~# `* b- A
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 w9 k- {4 C, o ) V4 ]0 [! v7 Q, v' y1 D( {. T {Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + E% Y6 ^1 [2 @8 x+ r& |
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / z' `5 o Z$ W2 I. t $ `' I+ V+ B2 v0 L6 |* E0 Z: Z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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