英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 2 k' x( q0 S, z# Z6 n+ p; c( ] ' {9 k% Y. v7 u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 4 O5 D# d$ [" {/ Z( V5 ~ 6 G# U1 M- q( ? T8 t- \研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 ' w1 _" O8 f) j+ L. g 4 `0 O. S5 ^2 w1 Z' A$ c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 5 ?8 W0 z- W+ i% m3 ]2 M $ I" c9 q; D& U# S9 n' s研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 2 |. J. N' n- L+ K' G! r ! j! C3 I% F+ p5 y' g+ _7 s3 p! HWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' # z4 m( ^3 P# H0 W5 d9 ?* |
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . q, r: O; R$ @! qPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. B+ _, M' L s, a' y- q2 Z! b, U" V2 k4 u) V
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; H+ o. G7 {+ C7 Q! w6 w
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - l+ Q. {: }9 F* \7 W4 B
- B1 a6 ^9 b4 V$ r" @$ n( D5 dLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : G+ C( W/ e2 a: o7 D4 g% U5 c7 ^5 q/ A
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 O, x: L. v( g T- \6 e# S: j8 V/ F " L8 ? n/ u2 H& a, T I4 b0 Z6 g8 q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 L' ~. s/ `( y& |3 K! n & [5 h1 C2 W: ] S) x3 J- yUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " ]' ?4 {3 D/ i! R6 t/ w; d* p
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. K1 P. M, _- B / N2 U( i' ?- f& E/ Y. \0 ]& jProfession " b m5 s% G/ y3 h+ M# _
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ h+ z2 A6 ~$ b: J! I H5 e
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " R, x1 d) ?. _( P; S; {) K0 H
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 G. a! \/ h( j( V; n* X2 _# w 5 I: j' R' W7 d( |+ d; nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 |/ C0 T' w8 s9 U! w ' \3 t3 T" t" ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ i, P" r) u5 w3 Z. ~; K8 w
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 h& c2 }; ?2 C+ o* I' R + a) J4 [' [5 |"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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