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标题: [国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱 [打印本页]

作者: 日月光    时间: 2007-2-10 12:40     标题: 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。! ?# N; q7 A( m7 r  @

/ [( q$ ~6 P" X据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' n! s& a/ q; V" G# \7 \研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! [1 `1 G6 x7 k# g' W5 r& U9 `  ~

% O( u- u+ n! c6 T8 d4 @9 O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ F% h0 L1 X7 E7 H4 S! ]
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: V, V% ~0 r" o4 I$ ~3 t: l& R/ lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ! m9 h$ Q1 ]. |, D
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 o4 ?4 n9 }& h) S/ y( A$ sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. $ O( }9 Q, M' B& n* ~0 |8 }6 c' n

$ h! p4 l2 \) m* d4 S) N" d( hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , K+ B& f+ v. V, z, A

8 P% y  u, D7 @! LLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " r/ e- u) F6 S! \$ P& L
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 m5 `# o" N8 \# \2 d4 K  h

3 N# d, ?' G: h6 K- c3 n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , j$ j% X8 ]# W: u% K, ^. A0 W
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % N9 e( W2 G3 U

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 W* s" ~- R5 J6 G1 Z! G/ tThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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/ B, H; G; i, F( T! ]5 BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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