英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 ! G) ^$ J; s, q$ z; `4 H& k" Y - Z- c/ L5 L$ g4 V5 O* }$ P据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 r0 ~/ d' o' P) U5 Z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 J- K3 ]* @& M) ~
' [# D7 n0 p- r6 |- F' U根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 & s1 u1 v t( ?& _! F( b/ ? $ s4 Q8 ]2 D( w9 Q \: _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 E( }. x2 q' H y3 N* w# t* f8 u- q7 V) H; [' Y; Q8 r
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 C, a$ R# b5 z FPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 Y$ L" a0 ^! v( o2 E
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 {% u5 {6 R ~( p$ y : T9 k' Y* i. [, {3 k0 NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 `# M1 w6 o' e/ i4 \* C' | 4 q: b. \! T* n7 ~# T h"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 Q, [; s* Z5 N! R
9 x, L; j4 y& y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." u. a! P. \4 y
- G2 K. h6 G7 m: X* sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # \5 k4 _6 c$ g8 Y, h) f R8 e8 Z) T& ^/ n! b
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( G K! j8 s- |( W3 W( Y$ K* q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) t" J& l* R4 j+ N: J2 R - w/ E: W- i6 y' c$ b8 UThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * U+ w4 ~; Y3 [& r6 o$ }5 p1 ?, b" P
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 I: n& _6 y0 v- X& k/ u1 ^: a0 c {( f. H2 r: ~, U
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 P! Y# Y5 V4 D& s
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ I+ s* q9 X6 I: C0 B" W9 K ) B% J/ {4 q3 q5 v; `" N"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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