英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 . d) Y9 Y$ b, t) H% N- L6 Q' O1 c9 B
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# q& u% A7 |) p6 Z3 c3 }. y
. }4 y) b) n- Z6 u* E7 C0 M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" S/ W: r0 {) z3 M; y! |& R
; h S p2 z, k" |# b9 ~' @( H根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 \/ h1 a" W8 E3 c" l! V
! m, g1 _8 ^2 v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, Q/ F' {6 M1 V) e0 T" w
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 \$ Z* ~& l6 X! h+ p; c5 s* Z- Q
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & M- E1 t- C" b' QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 8 v' h! o1 X) P! v. b" i
% A9 \0 ?( z5 tBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : e6 ]+ w5 W5 V" N & s" J7 [4 l6 o, C2 N# k* MThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( m0 {4 ] j* W8 W' \ / T9 d+ l+ |; S7 I- T6 m jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 D! L0 Q3 R* k4 C/ d h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! q! A& ^6 q; z1 m$ x: h& S \1 F
: F" s6 m* a. |5 C1 T' y k5 ]"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 L+ L- \$ x+ n. W0 {/ Z! ~* A 4 A' R. j% \, b' r$ Q( T T v4 UUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; }* u; y) k5 I; P3 Y; A0 ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. E0 m1 K+ ?. W2 ?8 f. ~: P- K @) M! i2 y/ c" Q, S- SProfession - \- q4 T: k3 I. N+ c, l: u) I$ t9 z% D, L2 d' A" J+ Y1 b
Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ A/ n2 ^1 a O
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 [) {4 w' H9 q
+ X+ Z+ L6 Q+ u) |- A1 r) S* @3 GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 ~: M+ `; m8 d/ N" X( a5 X" }1 q - n# T5 {$ P0 L9 [9 z2 K; NBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # ~! K. ]; t+ I6 N7 a/ N* K2 k
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : Q ]6 F9 y" P4 {* |) S; W0 b% \( O9 W' B# \
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - I* Y1 @% `& l4 {2 ]: v- F3 K3 Q' _& J" a
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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