英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 0 e+ i! a* s$ O# F8 V. `$ x. ]7 |( x9 q+ V4 K; N1 B9 n# V5 M
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: W' m' x0 t: Z W1 t* @+ O
' D8 w* |2 P A) r6 I6 c' u% N( T研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 s: W3 l2 N% o# j a( p, \6 ?) Y
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) e. }# y* T- D+ s
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 , S8 Z: M# `5 I: K* g# o ) k( ^- H& M3 h, j, C- r, m# U, KWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' - Y. T6 H2 X: s! V. ~0 I m
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 2 I' N9 v7 v8 {. Q) F$ g l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " A# G/ y6 @4 V& \ k# ~
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & y; X N" h' [0 G4 }$ ?' f I! n# X! W0 B& j, C4 k
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : U- F& h: W4 r6 h" j" L, l
( O4 o9 F9 r+ ?. ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( Q# K; h) D$ {) w
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 l9 ~7 S. m1 Z2 e+ g) w
1 Q, _; Q3 ^' g. ~( g* m6 G"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " x$ r/ g! j& v/ R1 @9 t! \. r; |/ c6 R# G. F: h$ q
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * c* \; `& G5 E. }$ |" Q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * T2 k+ M. k/ p4 Y) V& H* Z b& }# ~* Y; A$ t" }6 z) g. _5 R& @
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 h8 W% F# Z! [$ y# M
* T2 p& K6 m# b5 w8 _8 N) C& S7 ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % B4 H/ O4 V6 F" ^, E
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , L7 k' D$ Y/ r2 l* X3 v2 X, a# M0 f/ W8 l( m. T/ a$ K7 ]
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. J0 a! F% X/ i5 z0 D
1 }3 p; f2 }" \. N( NIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ]. U/ _! t/ S0 o5 ?
1 L( ]) D/ a6 d+ g: y; Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 v1 D" v) I: _, x! F0 `. G/ D ; v! ]- z. W/ Q3 A a U) \"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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