英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 O% k$ i* y* g. D* ^, K
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) |; z" |/ L7 I8 @7 e. t7 m
* J! ~% u' K x/ Z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* D; L! b* o8 Y# {: i; J4 E7 e
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# Q! z( t+ ]# \9 _7 j) `- P
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # ~& i$ C+ ?5 PPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , m8 V+ i9 L4 r# D; b' y; E
9 B4 ]7 |1 s/ _% G- q; }5 pBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # D2 f4 u' |- l , f7 b& V$ r; `5 U |The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . }# w6 x" A+ s' y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - C& L$ x6 r9 ]- m. m0 M: u% k! D2 _) ], u* T
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( x# ^" Z' K8 c5 Z# n( p3 G & F8 O, a& U0 F4 p9 c0 y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 a2 ~! Y3 g* m# h
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & Z {* b/ ]4 T+ ~% z- w- v7 C; O" e2 \; B$ E N" G
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 `" n5 a/ ]/ b
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& O9 C0 C! D( FAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 Y- Y! p+ X- K0 l / w: S1 Q+ Z! T/ F& F: TThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( K+ r1 H* y. U3 ?! Z! c$ P7 _: R
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' ?& W) N6 k, f6 c7 H0 |. }% @" X2 r+ l* ^- v0 t) C
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - m7 G `5 T8 z0 c$ b, _
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 Q/ s+ D: P3 O' m0 ^3 o% `3 S! q
' v- F1 d) F( P4 ~' y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & I8 E; S ^- T6 [. y" x ! w1 L7 _* } w9 o( B"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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