[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! X9 X2 S' o2 D$ ]

6 z4 J# `; j1 P! g' d# o' o& ]www.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 T$ f0 k- j( {9 E

+ H' t/ }5 y# e' B- m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 O1 M* y6 E6 v0 B9 b* }7 u
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) ~0 u4 \; a) u( t" s* s8 QHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & c! s7 A7 h' u) D! O
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 b  }5 ~4 J( d0 p9 y3 ~But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# e& P, `. b+ L' L. O4 i2 |www.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 b5 h- x3 [: V$ Y

/ {: A/ ~0 i0 O. c, f+ `$ Z* U"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : U& d2 p! s6 q. L" B0 \: _

; o' m" Q' ]* J/ X/ {9 o' @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) {" X/ a6 X" Y% z# B$ A
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * N. L: t1 v9 ~7 p3 _! ]* s5 S

# y/ w4 Z+ @/ ~4 J+ c人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 ~; k9 ?2 v/ a$ Y" S9 v/ J$ n

& {! T1 k, k, c; c2 z% B人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: K" j$ |, _+ P7 v: V1 T"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."