[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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5 X1 Z$ ~, Y4 J+ N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 E0 L8 m/ G: \7 T6 S
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de( X% \$ `  X1 c
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& |: q- a/ T6 e+ l$ Z7 yPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 g! l! G/ G/ w  q5 T; F. ~+ a( l
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 ]8 e, Y8 R  M4 R% a' f
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . T2 o4 _0 K* j
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   j1 E) w' d6 h8 u4 y. p8 ~

* I2 c% T: w6 E  S4 B"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) X$ g' M5 E2 n1 C: ?

. I+ s. G; j5 L  {! Q4 NSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 J) |! Q" x+ t! W) ?8 h$ E3 Vwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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  @1 t0 @7 @% ~3 R2 ]$ J/ EThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 A/ ?7 v% l$ x0 NBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( p! v& Q3 n" q! i# x- r7 }0 M8 y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" X' ~+ t4 O. B! Y4 P; I( C& ?www.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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4 f/ @! l1 w4 I( C  z) b1 v人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."