[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, [. ^8 _, F2 b# D/ e! }5 r) \据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 c) Y1 ~! ]- M+ t
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区* V( ^/ y# g% L

! j$ T8 v- G6 H0 x. Y: r! |根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 z4 ^) D$ C! Z3 |* zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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" N' O( i$ i: U- B" D$ m3 ?www.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区; E0 U% L( X  E$ ~
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % {* w% F! j! `' O
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; O. P: x, a" A7 S+ L! O# k! B3 X

+ L- Y" D+ t3 T"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de0 w" u' m% t& A0 ~+ x+ z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# r, k/ I  e- `Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 h3 |+ ?) c  ~8 c3 Z6 ~
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - g% G' b4 K" I" a& U1 F+ n
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 e0 q  b0 M: r
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区( Z! G# B9 w8 Z' x' r
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# f9 R' k" m! u. g4 p1 l"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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8 V" L% x& j, |0 j"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."