[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区2 H4 C8 t; S* D6 j6 n

( L3 I3 n; Z- r5 D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de; ?$ |# P* V; P6 ^+ |

; x# j* j* ~+ V0 F人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 D4 x; \" Q" b8 ~  A, Q' @2 l

( m& m  |: W( I5 S# Gwww.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, i6 v' H' X2 N& S

* ~2 u8 N7 [$ S, gWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 c' d5 h1 f' ]& W  N8 MHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区- U6 w$ p" e( m! J- H
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 ^7 I4 z' s$ v6 k- J6 V
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 v# g: t: q5 u6 v( N4 }7 s"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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! D4 T$ G6 G5 M! U% x! v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - `/ r/ O# V7 b( E; a3 `$ r1 w5 u" r0 L
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) Y! L# T/ |9 U
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- G! i; G0 a7 h, F, ^- yThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( ^, }0 G4 Z! O

& _* t3 p6 Y" U  f% B, t人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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7 g, C( {! G1 c. g8 s# XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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$ D' d" W: ]" M"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & q  k0 a1 e  G8 _

; _. s3 ~* H! M& A/ N9 F  iwww.csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."