[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 _6 k  O. D* u& H8 K

* w3 D2 o! H/ c: r: p据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' _/ A4 A$ p0 f/ ?9 Q# k  q% R

% t: P1 Q" E# q! n) P人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de; l. |6 ?8 m. E0 v2 H3 O  A
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。; `/ L  z  U3 g

# ^) a9 l4 {( e; ^; h2 d" X% v7 @" Z人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * b7 L1 v) v5 |5 M4 c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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9 R% ^+ G/ ]$ P$ ]5 K8 Y# K% b+ e9 hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' M; {# w( {2 l* H1 R  x$ U
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 Z/ l, V& r& H, N/ h0 |

  ?# ]5 h& e; Z) a  v  cwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 s( o0 q2 e4 J. F, o+ U
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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" I9 I% U$ w* E6 u" sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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" x" u' q, |6 A2 V3 E2 q! bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. a- m: _! `$ A, ~. j& l+ g) PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! t3 ?: h/ S" h. O' c& E
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! `, X/ `" O7 d

9 S, A0 D. s* Y6 v6 B& W- C$ uIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 f  p1 Q: Z6 V- W; B

3 ~* m) \! q( X% Kwww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 L# A8 g5 d; J& u# l" ?
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."