[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 l. p7 J5 j- c1 a1 Q) C
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区6 U6 |8 [) {' t( B8 W& ^

% x, l- ?- \. r) U# {5 f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ L) p3 m) G+ V% t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de/ t2 j3 ~7 a0 ~( y2 R

: {& M5 s; [: CWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 c- {3 n& w0 Ywww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区9 {5 f  n" A9 N- A! ^# F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : h; E( c  S3 L7 r: }) N
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % }  }3 z! u( G- u
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 @9 ~) q7 T1 E& Q! U* s"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + E% n5 Y: M, `: h

: l" X# ~/ Z) o5 x8 r; m  ~7 W1 Q人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 X* {& X4 n* f9 d$ S. X1 G7 b
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   \7 H7 V) v/ R2 U, z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区5 z7 n, k4 H, ^

" u% P8 r8 k4 |人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % _, j0 O+ W, _. g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 n# @/ u% Y4 P- H
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. + v9 {. R$ v3 {' i: |2 l

& i' U0 i" x! W  h+ z( mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."