[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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8 J& C; L0 ~. y! |* x, @. U7 E$ Owww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& M2 m5 I( G$ [' E/ A' t4 I0 r
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区  e. V. f7 n$ m. u4 l7 P- ]  u4 {

3 o& `& p2 X! H, ?0 q; [研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' # H4 E  n: y/ `' l, O# X& U
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de2 o" v; p2 r7 D
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * G9 e- H  \8 @+ U

7 c- d+ H" Z. j2 H) oBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 X' N9 M8 r: x3 e% Z7 ~6 |

; Q& `! j" m* X1 `! uThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; y# T/ c2 _: Q8 z4 wLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区/ o/ _# z& k! ^
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区' f' W4 N  j; f2 }% B2 E/ O) Z

. U8 a3 L/ f0 w4 j& _. O* i"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区- G$ n9 x5 b( d8 y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ ~) h6 I4 O, Y- S3 E6 s9 E

! V+ \/ P+ W  J, E( e- z6 X8 m4 ?9 Y人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' P5 W8 {7 y  P3 h  J1 w. u2 o* |
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, K0 A" `4 x; b( s# Wwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) C: F1 o8 A4 h  w* ^  M1 f

& b- o5 S' @  \+ U) \The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de% R/ Q+ i/ Q5 r( A9 ]
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * t8 w7 A1 V; x5 A5 O3 i0 S
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + L# g) s3 i; W
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."