[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。& v' B3 W  x! ~% ~0 R

4 Q% o  Y* W( q3 i据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de% p, J8 w' `" D* c

& W/ F( z7 g) U& g  w人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' }( b6 {8 y: Q  ^* f7 \+ S, o! J

4 H) g9 x5 }  ^$ C* n0 J2 B人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 _! Y5 u" C3 \0 H; S

! [. w' o5 q" ?  y# b1 `, d研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- L2 O  ]. ?$ ]Why women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de2 ~9 P0 o1 V2 Y5 ?

0 _0 `7 P# N+ {% ^/ VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; t, `' x9 g: T" Q; B: JPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . h/ V" D2 k; w
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 k' W8 \# l5 A"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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8 q, @( _" Y& l1 o+ Q  w( |$ F- f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( l* \( R( a- }$ C

* E3 N6 C+ r. u* s' B. y/ R人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# \0 \1 u( |6 j- Owww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ b% n7 H6 ?" Q0 i7 XAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de, f) E3 e2 ?& t% U9 `6 ?0 Z" r& m
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 l4 ~6 W! t5 oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 u  l$ ~# U) j) ?* \4 J0 }

  ?  `+ `5 h# t* K3 I+ F4 uIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 x1 C5 O9 y# E. E- {! x

; F$ i- c1 f3 O"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de3 j- r9 A" R1 N. o
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."