[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  b, f7 K0 v9 Wwww.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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* R4 `- l* c. v* o3 g9 L- e9 k$ X根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, u) s( L- u  _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 h# ^9 T. a" RHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + n2 s3 I1 o# G6 T( i, m  O
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * g' G) p2 j# v. G+ e- ~( j

7 \$ G3 h) `6 g+ K" WBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区& N* [4 F% x. G6 c" N! H: f% T

" p6 @( ]& L( }$ Lwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % Z+ y" O4 A7 k# O+ R& A

; Q& E$ u4 o* ?% c. s"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 @' M" \) I1 f! R  S  u

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区% w; I) L+ ^! S6 u

1 q; }8 j2 \# ^# D4 fThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 K3 Z9 {- Q* B; g5 `

" ^, U& ]  U/ t; _/ o, oBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. www.csuchen.de, L" j; _6 I7 }( n7 m9 z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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. j0 h0 }4 v# ]人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区* j5 z# d0 k8 {5 U

6 T* b" X+ J# R" U+ x; Q. B+ v- Z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."