[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, x8 D- k' z2 V人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# J, S" b! S5 r) Z$ s( }! I

6 `; n- K( W$ Z, Q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ n: w7 g4 k2 k& ^/ C3 ?% O9 N9 @
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de) M+ a! b3 o8 W! E1 Y9 x# m! Z, m
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区3 R* _2 n% }: {5 A2 V& E
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- S2 t4 A3 e# E" S% E' OPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 U# B6 B5 G) y" ?; E8 |: r  \
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& L- H9 k1 m. Z- eThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' w# s: L6 m7 _* y

$ s5 g3 v% a* ^& YLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 Y& |& ^9 ~, o1 S+ `4 J% k
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . Y- l) e5 u+ \" k, c
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% B1 T5 g5 K& `3 Cwww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区6 x( _3 h6 u, h8 [3 I

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 M7 O; j+ d: V* o$ g
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 F6 P0 J5 @+ G+ i
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - v8 \4 E1 g5 j5 A% O' ~# Y$ R
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de; z* [& h( X( J% b  x

/ C8 h6 b6 D( S4 w"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."