[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  }1 R) P) w+ l/ n! }, N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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2 n  H0 _1 y6 V9 \) f8 Z( |人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; w! d# j. L- s* {& F4 \, ?

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4 J3 h+ v5 c$ d5 ]$ Wwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% J( ]* n* i& q6 K: X$ e人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. . E: F3 u7 i" X
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 w" [. T  f/ C) ]/ l8 U/ s* v% G* R

- m+ Y: X: ~' F6 d4 nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de4 N5 ?$ e' s2 D, l% B

; V$ A& d5 a" m3 i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * X+ {& w9 l8 E0 x1 K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ V6 w2 _+ e0 @- Z( R人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de1 s- c( s0 @, O: V) w' F7 v1 O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区8 I# Y: i4 f: ~/ ~

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" v1 @) q" B% Y$ e6 s+ }4 {8 \人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- h& F) C# ^8 ?( D- y8 XBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' u7 W  @$ `) o; z人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , C( p" {3 o6 I9 b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."