[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' \9 q( i3 R8 I" ^; r& z" T" Q

+ Z# E% b# k( J8 F2 a) e  Q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. K2 c, D0 ^% {6 n
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 M3 q  e# r. m5 K  ^

  F" F, q4 `8 a+ F( I& F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 S  {1 ?. \' S
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ ^& P% C1 N3 F% X3 t
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( y3 S" D( |, M3 \8 Z, ^; H. S0 ^

: B) P+ Q) V. E, U1 }" nwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & ?, b% Y) o  |8 k, ^/ A# n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! I9 c$ [" b' \* g. E5 [
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. % r8 ]3 H+ Z4 J8 {! \9 E' n! s

& |  q# F' r, R% Qwww.csuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   p5 b% N# w" f
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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) Z% k3 h3 k) awww.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区3 h: J+ j5 J3 T& J

  ^2 N. Q/ s. q, J+ z1 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 L& B3 V3 A, R
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ ~& u' m4 e; H+ H& X( z" J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de  Z5 z8 z0 s% n. R1 D) U% g: x
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" A- [& K8 {8 k. S1 X1 u$ \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- Q& @6 `/ _. d- k( {, k人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. # y* ?6 S, y, _, ]8 w' }, l
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."