[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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& k! `% c; O, E1 ?人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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, K& d: C& |2 D7 f" ?5 S/ s" ?! rwww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ I: V3 g; |; }4 |0 t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ V9 w4 D# q& b' V0 d, fWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区7 d2 h2 @- x) U
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' u& Q- g* A& p7 \: HPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 g7 F9 j& ?& R. O- [  ~

# y7 G; T! U; c. M, k- {. mThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; v7 `6 \) ~9 g, o8 V8 Y7 C% G- qwww.csuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. V9 G7 a; p1 z& j5 D/ a8 Z4 I"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ }/ T9 @7 E8 r4 c3 n% r
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 ^' C) w* W; h7 T& P5 r. X/ Owww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # @7 N2 y# L" k5 G6 `
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* J# Z1 n# }0 {4 s1 l% LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% `8 C) ]4 U) X& }  L4 A% kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   e0 J/ _" w! U1 r6 Q
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' x; N- I6 E5 ~+ A8 I% x5 n人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."