[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" ~6 p* ?: _7 W0 R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de2 ~4 b  e* r2 [' U1 |
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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+ s4 Z! r+ `; b! U% }) J( M根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 Q; c9 f, w4 K, p

% H2 g- ~/ @! D$ k/ V6 a2 J3 |研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% W: N+ H$ i' H( y7 k' U: W/ s2 swww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区' l; W( N9 j& g( Q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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. e& R9 c  O( l0 U2 n人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * v2 q) N# I$ `  @- T5 _, u0 ~

' F6 T% `& E% o% Y9 M$ h% P* K9 J"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% E# m- |& j, S& Z% P9 d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区8 `# n4 J1 n" q

& p4 ^) m  [" _  H$ L( Rwww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . ]' r7 ~" V/ I
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ |/ A- ~- N. O! r% {# qAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de3 N9 g2 \9 P# h) L" f, y" c
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) T! l# H( u+ |* P7 f5 j
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区/ g' Q; G. g6 @

. g" h0 S7 {+ c- `But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( I3 L. `0 _9 h# N
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& l0 p* Q9 U' g8 W6 j9 m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * h: Q4 j/ i% ]
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."