[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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; J- B- S" s6 T1 S# Z( K# z6 _人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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# Z/ ^% X+ w; i; D  u* f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" y0 p& x9 `# ^4 e' G
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 [2 G: K* F6 a$ m0 Z
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) B2 j. N1 Y7 G  n" P人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 z; |) O( N$ e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' q' q: I4 D$ t" ^  j9 B
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 e& o: B9 i: l( H, Q- z6 U& X3 k9 y
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 t. B6 S& H( t4 _" i0 Y3 O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 b5 z' n, m6 H) c* B% w7 H

$ D$ b2 ]. q9 W5 i+ T. M* B) HSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. t* a- S' {  `" G9 W2 W4 e& t/ _Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' ]: x: J5 l/ f" F' u( Z$ V6 E, E

  p+ r8 L) V6 r& e$ vThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 [; n* p; f' C' ^( d

) ?: S% n* ?4 X7 a$ U/ fBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# `2 S/ n! M$ j2 l5 d"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , r, u1 U. ~" ~* h

- x* c( G) H) @  g" \- Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."