[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! F) Q6 C$ u  Y) i; E

  m) N; n. @- g9 ]( J% Q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de# y% X( {2 a4 B( }

8 f# F( U6 A3 P# i! `人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! {$ y9 t& Q7 T3 _$ G0 d

6 j& I5 J/ f" L% Q$ G/ o* }5 {研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( E- o5 h5 x" D$ L! D$ awww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: Y" s2 a7 p* `: fHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" X: E, s$ K+ p, C5 L/ hwww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 ]( O" @/ {4 w
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区. F$ i, b, Y- X4 [  s3 t! C# a
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 ], J" Z& U# j
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 i0 g- y1 o! h5 M4 ]; C0 @1 ?9 s
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ K) T+ m: g2 U4 @$ Z人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) D; r5 d! A) d

3 ?6 O- a' [) s* z- PSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% x1 \$ h: c# T6 D) v& k: R人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ L/ u7 B2 U- }7 r  `人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! p& O. L/ j" G; u9 L/ Q9 L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + g' R$ F2 y# g8 U/ T% v
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."