[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 ~0 G5 P! f$ R6 L2 i据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 n! h) v; e' y' D8 m7 U
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 E& `. N, a1 ~: ?" F! s  L. N人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( j0 a; u8 C  H( }) ]% S  v& N+ b

! r. S) M$ x9 K" w& \1 x: Dwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 u8 H- }! ]0 a0 X! d( S人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! P) V" m- z2 h7 C& X; gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . U5 b- i+ [' _+ T! H
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 L, s, @2 g3 b2 a8 u, f

) N7 L8 }+ O( d$ DThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 ^$ ?4 r0 J+ z- n( N: w# d! R

' m4 d! B& @7 g' g- @2 e3 ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # j8 q& d3 D! Y/ y' i* B

: Q& Y6 l' t* i1 J" k"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 e+ ^/ ~" b; m9 D

# B5 S4 q& w6 \. B% F' f0 k3 l! wwww.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. T2 c7 ~: {4 \  pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - o4 j' e) f! W2 o# l2 y

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 |8 m" \5 ]+ I6 b+ `4 q$ Wwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de0 A- Q# V+ n. W( U

- ^- v# I' M& _0 ~4 eThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区+ T$ t3 U1 n4 i4 n/ O& ]& B+ i

5 j7 ^  }+ G6 [, }# G人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- _; f$ I& y0 H! ^: E8 b, U$ W人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."