[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区) C3 j5 ]+ r" c5 b! Z3 A* r$ ?, x0 f
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de* C( ]% J, G0 y0 C9 l1 u0 E

) n% ^# [: C5 ?1 Z; d/ B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' ^/ [" ~) A" ?5 t- c% r* ?2 I

+ _7 E5 C: {" y& E; P根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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; |" ]- j( Z1 p. x人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# w/ a  L3 l& t; j  A" p

3 _$ C6 C$ E. BWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 V5 w, y5 c* o. A
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( z- q! W7 D; Z3 K& Awww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de1 g1 j4 W' e: X. g: s
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de! e( Q; S$ {  d7 G( c: V( I
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 X* [2 X, l% x0 L8 p$ @

  G+ {" b4 u9 B; l# d; Z; k"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - B2 v. X& ?( ?  _/ x0 a: w
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. i: B" ~& X3 I1 ^/ O" H: b/ v: mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. E( [" J. w9 v9 O' E% p2 \"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."