[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 k9 f8 w6 i( Y2 {  K9 E
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; Y. I3 x$ Z6 R6 ]- |; v# L. v; ~
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 f/ X; ?, H1 f% ]2 H3 b
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' % l* m, U/ N! e5 |, `( e% @

$ j/ ~) R& d3 }High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' V4 [+ I. o8 M! W* L! T
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! y& C& \/ ]/ W6 |! mThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ g; a, h5 T$ y' D1 z7 v. g( o( A人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. z& q6 ^6 h4 d) p$ C, T"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + ]" ]1 C8 q1 a/ h7 G

/ C0 e* z# S  R; m0 Y5 q. Y人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 `$ O* ]& d9 {& T+ i人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. www.csuchen.de) t1 k. r& w. _/ g% T) d

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' R3 S, m/ ]( t0 x) v, R) U人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 B/ D* o4 v( U: L  m/ i& G, S1 r
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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5 X& @; W$ J( A7 D2 X% L2 a0 bwww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, M8 V# m) G8 b0 y2 S7 WIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 D3 J( @0 j' k

% d6 {/ @5 d2 e2 G"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."