[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 g1 _. J% M0 L+ s; {/ ]
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ V, Y0 _  U8 r- E( C+ E3 L9 N9 ]www.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 Z2 n3 E6 _. e+ `* Ewww.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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  D# F) x/ u( O6 HWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de  T8 J$ d0 U$ L4 R" ]; x0 a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. : T3 U8 t( G  j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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# ~9 A3 s  F% W8 WBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 ^4 W, o9 {9 h8 S* Mwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de4 ~2 j& I7 e: J; o- e

" u4 _9 \- s: k  ?0 |"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 C5 y! j* j3 q% H2 z# L; T% N2 J
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # d3 H0 X- @; E; e- V/ V/ X- I7 t

5 F. D+ `5 W1 U7 [0 T4 ~0 Swww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 ^' l& W. T* n, I$ |

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de6 L0 m6 C3 s& L8 G* H+ ?

5 J6 r9 a6 ^( OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ F$ s: c; @* ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) S0 Y+ I5 E6 R2 V8 C
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区. D# H( d# I9 H. @8 f

: Q! u& e3 Q3 r! C5 h( z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, ]/ K" e2 P# D7 @( h" d) X4 ^- g人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."