[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。" U' j! U! Y* j4 ]) h* ?/ ?

, g- u. l- V5 V& Z& v1 n# ~; `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区: q& C5 D3 M6 l# d
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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" A& l  ]7 W  \2 h# ?' nwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 L! t* g& z% L/ q, u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de& t4 X0 @: o8 B

, v9 R0 ^; H6 x% Y3 ~( K2 WThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " }6 V3 \- ^9 j# T

* N$ s' j) a, CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & R9 o2 ^+ ^- H4 c4 C

* Y2 E0 ?8 G/ C/ u1 k- Q" X# `4 E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 p0 |7 u: x. z! `6 B4 X7 l% D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % _: d. u6 O% k. n
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 K5 U4 p- q) A& e! D" g5 R' t- k
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* g6 H* G0 Z: {+ uThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" C$ {% f5 S# A5 W/ mBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 h  U! G: I  ~4 J0 i5 X1 @, l
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区) B$ X0 u/ A0 V+ w) ]

# g( b& I6 R  U$ p) A7 H' t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de: g' k) |) d7 Q4 u  u, ]4 v5 f
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."