[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区$ F: u3 b7 B/ A! i/ ?

' e6 R3 ^3 Z) g5 q  [# [据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; t* E2 g! O  a$ ^8 \4 \

: c. C' e9 @7 q/ x9 R根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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9 T- P. D1 H6 l5 |" R研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。$ ~' V$ L+ R) A; d; o
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ! e& v. S# H" k% T' n, r* f
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. : O: E7 ^/ `6 \+ {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % A4 m0 I! v8 v/ n6 V# T  E
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % _3 V/ j& g( C- m& M* I& _1 R
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ D5 T5 I" ~5 @+ u' e

8 i! C  G) R7 ], g$ h% ~9 [Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" U; c! e2 T5 B, U"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  @% L1 Z1 d$ b( b2 a"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' F# B  T1 U. ~7 J6 F' g" U& S  FUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 l9 f3 C% h7 y, X& WSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区3 h1 c9 \$ E3 o! d5 O/ s

* c8 _/ v  z4 e7 n5 O8 f8 RBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ ?, Y! t$ F- h8 a" n8 i, @* n人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  d4 Z5 D. k) L# b! owww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de5 b0 R( [$ O( ~7 f

) T* {7 \) q9 |9 {7 u! s8 m; a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."