[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ j- x; ^, |4 O* Q( Q6 h
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区' ]* S+ ~4 R5 m0 a- u/ c  `

# s) _$ R6 X/ H$ D) f7 _' F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de4 ]% B, K* H2 `
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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1 u% i5 A$ e" C* R1 YWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区6 A  Y8 B6 f2 y! z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - j0 {% F; M% G) L+ T$ q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . Z. ?' V% u) w! F( Z  P
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' a* O) e, ^+ }2 b5 K

( w, r. d$ R; R$ r3 Swww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de) o5 j1 P! T/ {6 m% v# b

2 U9 |+ Y  |9 m1 tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" F( `) W" W+ A# p4 _+ T- t"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 N: A$ \6 F5 g% R. K: ^, _! n+ NUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; L7 c" i, h$ f! d7 bSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 [5 n+ ^# P# Q; Z/ j: Y+ Q$ CThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de  w5 T. {# Y" H' s- e2 x2 Z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, c5 n1 h. M; ?人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区# F& b  x7 Z0 e& j& e5 ^
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de' a/ t6 j  y/ k0 a% S

& i) H. [6 t# t3 b2 u5 A6 Q' h人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; ]% A6 r) B" v; p

7 o  |+ o4 H+ q$ \3 W"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."