[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' e  Y, X2 W! s$ \人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! `5 b3 S8 B. B5 r4 a5 G) C0 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 }6 |5 {9 h5 Y+ n研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 l+ s# }, I7 x1 uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - ]1 ~! q: L. e+ e; Z! z

; x* r# F: w# K* L: m( j8 MBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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- w3 B& \* c& ^% H$ DThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, @* _: o0 ]( y* Q4 WLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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% f6 y0 d1 [1 O9 C" ?) z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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$ a! Q7 X  K  i" r- _+ ~www.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区2 x9 O, W4 @  f; e/ F$ w- ^
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 n* I* v" K( U. c
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* E& E! a( r- ~/ LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- o; E3 J( K9 f5 e" M$ `7 oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de/ H% O9 H5 D  b' ]

! u% n( J0 l* x. Q6 uBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. www.csuchen.de, U, G4 X  j4 p% _0 Y$ f- m

& p; C8 N. V8 S: uIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- j3 I; P) F& r, E( ~: e: f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."