[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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( j6 |4 ?. @% a" P7 \! b* r* A据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. C* K) x" _! \: c; L$ ^+ Q研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de& Y7 ^5 g" |/ p
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! ]7 s3 _6 y8 B: k% o5 c) @Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) j% |- s! ^2 g5 K* ]% t

0 o" ]/ Q8 v6 w9 A" m. E9 FBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( P/ _- K3 O+ M( AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ f+ D  X9 D& ~0 K

) ?) A# ]& [! B, y; tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de, I7 m/ D, M' a( Q

+ B0 G: g: H; ~. M& k4 [5 E& ]% x人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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4 M5 U8 k: t8 b0 T) G/ ?8 O5 P0 t. m1 r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区' W/ y+ S. f% g$ r$ r
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. S* |# o; P/ e' LSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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+ V2 P! B" J: P# U/ u& ?8 @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 @' |1 q# L4 ^: q9 [' V: l/ n- q

- v! d$ K, N1 k5 T/ [人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " y5 H/ H( r. H8 Y# N" H

( r$ N2 p% G9 ^8 H2 `! lBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de3 K4 a1 V0 |9 [8 \
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & h9 J$ {& Z# c( R, }& r

7 E/ f8 a! L  Z, p0 G6 [" U"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."