[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 y; T- r/ e8 ~! b
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 i6 h, f: s* p: m& m8 w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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) l3 U$ G4 r! z% {; D, t根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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' Q9 |/ e! n+ t- lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 S9 V; W& K$ ]8 p$ {8 Pwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区% f& e% z; d6 \  y+ E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 o3 E( ^* d- v7 X3 ^

  b  J1 B. j. ^8 J, @人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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+ [* J% q. W+ Y8 w" J4 lThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - j  I4 t6 E/ |" b/ j

' {2 X" F! i. H* U" f: \Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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8 ]7 A( A' v2 R& v. @2 Y# x人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区7 ^+ i$ p2 t- Q1 S) f; P+ M

& x8 y7 p$ |1 T5 r% OSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. www.csuchen.de1 G! i8 j: v. ]; |4 Q: I
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& m6 i) z' m! Y) \1 H& wwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 l' d8 K# I9 d% B

/ J0 _) a  @) i' C5 F) RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区& V& J6 B+ u" q# D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- d% {9 P! R6 v# U9 s4 ]: e"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ `! r, j9 \( d: L$ w) z( R/ |www.csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."