[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' E& O& w! i1 q5 I% {4 j

& ]  N+ g; n; I& u$ X: J据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de5 B1 i9 A/ v3 K5 H. T
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- N' s: f% C, D+ b7 h$ bwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 m# Y, C  F! V* b  W% ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 t- e+ y+ ^, Q; J8 _- g

! d/ `+ ]7 i8 o$ X3 F, CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de1 [5 i& d0 T$ k. B- V4 n

) ~2 c9 i% L5 x7 E人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  y1 I  a3 x2 q1 H3 J- b0 p& c7 @"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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7 @  M0 y% C' S' {4 H/ QUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 S: H1 [2 \, m

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 p8 J3 ?) w" D
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; x' Y: D: t" a$ n; d* s5 aThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ r0 J/ J4 B& V" D0 `: b

. q) o( p5 i7 n! Twww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区' k. C: ?  T: c4 \

( i" S7 A* P: R# u( X2 bwww.csuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 K. d; [. `4 D8 q

8 ?9 o3 ~+ x4 }! e. kwww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " A6 f: G  j' @2 u# f; }& m1 P5 ]0 Z
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."