[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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0 v/ q9 e; h" c9 `6 t) \研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  J2 O2 t5 h6 B1 V& v

( t9 L: q1 g' ?2 t7 A" K" U人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 S$ P* t2 q+ x& ?人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 @4 ]6 \! B1 e; H: AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 a! v) w% L) ?) h$ Gwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + X- p" m1 w% _+ g, @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * m. B( A9 m$ X- H. g

5 w- P8 o  `8 K. Q5 r8 t9 e4 L人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; j: L: T/ J" y1 w( ~" M

# Y1 H+ Q% m* K9 w4 T"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . }" x. H6 B& E; n* ?6 I# N
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' ^' q" H5 N) x

* |8 X3 D0 R" ~www.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , u3 R) }! v3 B7 O% ]6 V

/ t7 u7 l8 J1 h% ^7 S3 iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 o3 Q$ _* u( m& ^+ l* i- F0 T
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3 m8 t. j. Y  y2 c: G$ V  n0 ~0 hAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & [6 K# I# u* ]- B+ w

, H( H7 r8 b, U) @% f" Mwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 G4 n3 A9 k6 C* D4 w
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) w  S+ n. U8 A! |( C4 K

% x  }! X8 q1 R1 IIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区% p  J% a( B; ~

1 ~2 t$ G- ?+ V& S8 u2 s; n"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de" Y9 \* o0 W: V

1 k# d- I8 X6 k人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."