[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 @1 p- r, b! b6 [+ W1 v3 U; C

8 a4 N. T0 v& _# l+ |% o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 U8 ]% \* `$ j9 B) _研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# d  h! s6 Y. f/ C3 D; D* Wwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- g  f) C: S6 w+ R1 YHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # Z: E1 O& J7 P1 S! C4 `1 Y' A
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 g+ }7 X; E7 S

/ G: H% \' d3 k) z$ W1 vThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 u* N$ y4 h% C. y

' o8 g  n' M8 ]+ q2 kLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 D  Q8 f! y. A: N' |$ ^. l
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ l5 g, V, k" C5 W- v" k0 K

$ B$ ~8 f- b8 k7 k; Qwww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ Z+ U. h; {7 n6 n  W+ W3 W  w
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' ~5 y- x8 o+ A  L- w3 P; @5 J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ W9 }) k9 Z' ^$ Q! MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 {" P, c( M/ m, v6 H( a% E1 ]
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 A' E# u$ X% v* C- K

  p3 K8 r, Z' o# P! B  W% I/ P"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."