[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# d0 r; w' P7 g+ q+ U" q; \. `

2 H4 \4 g! ~) _; A" x9 Uwww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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5 p: m# C% O+ d4 w1 A" }www.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) u, ?8 W! h! |" ^* z$ _

# {9 |" {* F/ x: G# D研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 ^7 |: Z. g0 W/ \' q$ _6 QHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; E2 m: Q2 P, l+ y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & |: U1 y1 ~& t* P5 x
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   Y# F: k+ Z6 s7 {% R0 K- E9 y0 [

; x9 g; A1 F4 f, v9 F8 |6 cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de. O& q" B6 L* n" B6 |0 D$ r7 H2 Y

2 \  }. d2 O3 g; z* I2 d# W人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区( O$ K1 H2 [5 M/ d5 f& C0 J: I

3 N# B3 T8 N2 l; M& G$ T5 F"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 {6 L5 @9 A, }8 m8 _" H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " |6 Z9 x& `% l

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. W8 D4 f6 s' i4 t: k$ Hwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de0 S0 i0 u( }  E7 c$ l
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' P+ T. s% x/ M# f2 W. ]* l, X

& |1 d8 |/ g7 q7 YThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) }* S7 `3 _' b: V

! X  H4 B6 j7 W* b8 L$ L8 T人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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  [2 d- I) q- q3 Q- u人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."