[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" M8 h$ z' j, r: @6 c2 r
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ r# {# H0 N' ]& N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ v  `' Y4 b6 i& l( ^

# ~8 ]6 |  L, `4 s/ |根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 ]; E9 x5 G- v. k

2 V) O% e5 `. w# |6 F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。4 z( ~  a% \5 x  C6 L

2 z; {" D- g9 BWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- y) D& ^, j0 B/ D2 fHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ X0 L  `8 Z3 e) j. ^; t# rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 R. O5 F5 ^, b8 A8 zwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * d( @# X4 q0 M  W6 Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ I0 M3 S) w, n: i( ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. + L4 e: Q+ ]# D. P* U

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; m, M7 ^! h$ h3 H( vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) M5 Z# U+ z/ d. |3 D+ z* E/ }& D$ gwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ P! b1 w0 }8 F# l5 tThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de9 E) z8 c% _) B) l

  N! M" I& y5 O% T; D) t1 S& I) e人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & v, t3 H. c3 a1 W; l
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" \% r9 ?6 k' P2 w"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."