[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: }. C: \! h* q& n' s+ A* @

' V, }9 F; E  Q8 i$ s7 c) R8 E, h" A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! ^9 f; l* }% a# w/ `

* N' O; S8 C% G: S根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( j! I! r+ y( i& j6 [
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de" f1 ^( r8 A+ a' k
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 d; {! j  l7 ^* m8 }. [; F0 b1 j3 p
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   Y6 S: v. H5 \" I: b6 g4 P. R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , l% J, q$ ]( U. R5 k8 h% i0 x: O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. S9 K0 N' O4 @9 k/ Z% @% j人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de) S& a# A! S8 |% h" P$ Y) Y

" j7 i6 d  M$ _3 q( |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区0 }. g; Y9 \) s' [$ p" `
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 g( n4 f: I2 A$ B- c: r0 A. u
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区/ p& N. x. p9 `- |/ T
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # e: V' W4 V3 T) R

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9 Y0 u  @: v7 R人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , A1 m4 K0 o4 r. T

& D/ l3 F) \2 l5 nThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区4 O3 l/ n* T* a% b
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   R3 C; L7 d# p
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' O4 o9 z& n! k0 F4 }

% y8 ^# K0 O* [+ m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."