[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ i6 B3 J+ E! Q& x: M
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% e' o+ v, u: _: u5 Q8 R% E+ w

! [2 q+ `" l3 P& l1 Ywww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, a: d: m' G$ C
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ Q1 R& D7 H0 j5 v3 MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 H" C& U- X3 G* y. Q) ^9 ^
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * N$ o' A9 w# N. V
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ N& E- d) J% |6 Fwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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9 f6 G$ l" ?. o5 K6 t: I8 j7 P"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! g1 `& ]5 A2 z/ l! f
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de- p- g4 {  ~6 C( t, e

! p1 u7 J! r6 G. U1 g8 z人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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/ o8 u( ?. j- E8 s+ j7 l# \8 gIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 n; f* N2 e. z3 P/ t( ?

0 G  `8 f+ p4 }7 K$ d; ?0 S"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."