[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( D4 ~0 @# s6 i/ }" y) L2 P
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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6 `2 ]- o: |2 b: W! j$ h. N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% X; z  s, K  s, v% d: l
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区' P8 G7 c1 F1 g) d, f

5 [8 A; |0 r6 R6 ?www.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! P# a8 f! |- m
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ x$ Y6 _: ]# ~0 RHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de; Y9 \1 R- m- o- ?, T0 G
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de9 [% l1 f% u! j4 {8 j4 m6 h4 n
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 ~; a* R1 |$ Xwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 q1 m5 D4 q# h3 L5 h  CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : u+ B) S9 x/ t0 O. O3 T0 G! `, h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; g2 f, X5 i5 V- H2 wwww.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de; w4 M' q, }# r& Z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " h5 p+ {0 a, P1 z' N, ]6 a! C

* ], n  @6 @: z+ a0 J人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( M9 O" {# g3 qwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) v2 J$ t5 D; i! r; b4 _; L5 B  q: |
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区& w: n  L1 r3 F! `# w. ]

# |% B! {  ]/ M3 V4 [, ]"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( m* q( ~* E' h5 T, O

% F$ W: A' w  \$ P0 E) Jwww.csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."