[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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( Z1 \! c) r5 J: A0 j+ I% swww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* m" a  X! l( M- O
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ w$ Q7 B7 a: U$ i  s; _# b! cwww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区1 p/ I( A- P" U% e
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区+ ^) M1 Y5 ^4 A# f+ Y+ R  J

" u$ {& ]* N# G- LWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ S9 M0 T/ o, Z8 J' r9 w5 Q人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 {* R  T+ _6 `4 f) q5 B# y+ D9 bPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 w+ c. I! P  z( T3 T$ m6 u  ?

4 a, x1 ^1 s9 z. e3 r0 xBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de7 P1 I8 Y3 G7 `$ g( o
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ V1 E9 [  o) B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- E! ^, T* \' `! T* E8 H" o人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) y) i. a  T. _2 e! ]- e3 N) f人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区& ~- D/ p2 e0 |+ B

1 G; i' }. Z! p" W3 C) i6 ^The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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1 b& p& n2 p0 Y6 `6 g% S" bBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( K3 t2 N, V# D: S4 [% \5 l+ D

: w1 C7 Q- M0 G* N' N! d9 PIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 k, a1 [$ M) P2 F& R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( G0 u; E+ S. r. \0 w$ Y$ {/ @. h

( h7 p1 y, q8 u+ `' r- g人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."