[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 [, c+ i) q% C4 S4 U
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 G% v+ d2 h: _9 t$ ^" J8 B' w+ s( \

- b( T5 W2 a2 O% T研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! C" }9 X* d' c  b3 ~High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ D* `, F) H# S' ?" n: n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de( I' q0 L0 M# ?; n. P

0 G, R' `; ?  B' X: T5 u2 swww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' U+ i( y7 ]6 d7 K/ N"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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, j- [- b5 T. |; @- c" Q人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % F& M9 Q# h- I- r
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de2 p6 E# R5 @  E5 o

( G7 `, I* x$ V2 i$ e4 s1 S8 j) E. VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 A- u& P$ \/ D

3 P9 H5 n) j5 m3 A人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区9 G: B) Z8 f$ b4 V
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 m$ Y7 I  }2 R9 L! D0 ?* J

7 m3 j% J; F% i9 Y; W7 y$ a"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."