[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 q- B6 N3 ]! N, u! K8 S, [# W; c2 S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de! H6 T; a+ M7 b9 c
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 t6 Z0 C" F) G/ [; Z

* s6 f1 \3 [7 |; @研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区, {% ]1 {( C# B- n4 M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ X, b5 W9 W4 l8 p6 D: fHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( j( \: e! Y* Q& ~% h9 O& t* T
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.   ^% ~% o: O1 @) g4 G
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 r/ z% {3 y( }* |; [

. O' k7 F% {, A; Y- v4 Y人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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! U# ]+ f( b% [: L+ x+ ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- {# w, ^- G& m$ H$ L6 ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de1 V) K) h8 C5 |) i2 N

6 @) Z1 ?* V" w+ v* dwww.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. J: M$ E+ \( p& B8 g1 d7 \Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  f$ N" p9 ^8 [' e9 ^' s9 xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 y  Z& d- T5 u) y4 l8 W- T: p
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . K$ j/ `: {3 S$ A' X
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 y# ], p6 l; }" u% r( X, S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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# I, V2 Z8 U% t8 n, r4 P) a+ z( EBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & m( L: p7 o2 V6 M+ T9 b3 B

, `  ^4 v% ^5 ?( b人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 H# j  \, U' }. _+ n5 e* f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " u, X3 z9 b$ \9 `1 {
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."