[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 _+ z- |# ?; J6 Z/ X; Z

% M0 E4 D' }# P$ k5 @据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de0 I$ \, D& l& _( e$ w& U

# ~5 d7 G" x' y5 _( J研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de8 i! D' O8 s% w1 J# Q* w
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de7 o: ?+ W: E' R; g, t; @; z* s+ {

  N" e0 H$ X: {5 G' V研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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" `5 x/ k  U- X4 {1 l& Jwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! g' M+ V& j1 f% P+ W' k人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 n% c* T! _* |. W0 T人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 n" i6 d. d! }- K0 ^3 i

, d1 }  Z3 ?' C( n+ t0 u* [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 O: {- M" y) i9 K9 f' NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; Y- Y7 n" K, T  NUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de% c8 ]- B7 Y+ T2 e! Y

) V8 @. X, v  Ywww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. + l+ j" H0 m3 w% ]
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0 s4 D8 O- f& B: G! D7 U& R' ]* QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 {1 F% ]+ V& L& ~: a
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区  H2 H, l: r( D& s: n$ C5 I$ y
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区7 @' i( }* }; u: X6 d) Z9 q2 W9 G: ^
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 W9 N: G: e/ ?7 [8 J
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."