[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区% L5 `% r0 o& I* r) v4 M* r4 n
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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" W3 h# ?) s8 U1 C# f0 F& s人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 h8 s, A& o7 ~7 N% h! O, x

: B, D' `8 P$ _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 t: l# u8 N1 H# l7 r, _0 T

4 Q# B2 e2 E5 [; z0 p) }& x) [研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* {8 _( f/ x6 k' m. f
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : a' f+ N* Q) z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ H+ k8 V7 Z" |- j, ~
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' N/ u- q$ e2 @( \5 M# UThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . g5 s6 }5 ?7 y' S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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( `% J! @  D! X, D9 `Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# c# Y3 I9 k5 q; Kwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 d& Q$ P. P6 Y" B9 J" I  cThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区$ P0 |1 f- s6 M( B$ J

$ \! U: ]) M: [# \' R( vBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区3 A8 ~9 i. i) I3 c) Q$ Q

' _5 S/ J3 i8 E/ a! W. ]) `! |7 J"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."