[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de' F' l$ d' y: x! u& |5 _
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区5 y! j) C3 K2 Y# f# T$ z' ?

# H' Z2 |( }$ j* p8 l/ Y5 {根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 V7 I$ Y" @* bwww.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ Y# Q) e' P# c* PHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - d) t3 G( `7 `1 E" ]8 ~) F- a0 L2 q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区8 g+ i$ j* _6 E! N" ^9 i
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区1 G+ r7 y2 @; s: ^" D8 E5 F! d& G
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ G2 C6 g, p9 x" `+ ^8 |( i' m人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区0 e- l; W* D& `1 [5 ^* M' Q2 t/ J) B
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 a3 b! A  S# J- r  O2 eSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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' J0 H. U% ~1 j, pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % K0 n, I3 `4 U3 x* A
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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# k1 [" O, @6 F2 L& G. e9 LBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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$ P4 C$ j7 K  J' [5 U) x* [3 bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."