[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 S0 N9 e. s% q& E据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ b& I+ `5 g( d1 C) R9 Uwww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ E6 T3 f0 M1 g/ b2 y
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' & G1 [  w; q" m5 E. X$ e. p
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - Z; _6 b6 T, \& B' k" N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区1 e7 ^2 `5 ]1 Y) D: ~$ t
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   W) s5 A4 D$ _

  Y/ n/ o- `5 j4 R2 f: T( A/ KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de3 y4 S* Z6 G: K% D
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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! Q2 Y4 m5 n% F9 l2 c# \www.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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" ~% P7 M3 `# N9 b2 Q% g. h"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 ~' y' \; c0 B( }+ T
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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7 ?/ [0 h! A0 F5 WSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区8 H" b* y& _! N* H1 x7 t0 \" f
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* s3 {: R% V8 C9 @3 q, U9 d1 u2 IAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区# L% B" E" y4 N% t6 Q+ e: G

, A% z! K# @% ~+ r$ p; owww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 q0 D. ?- K: y) T6 H8 U% {; h6 W
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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9 V# P# |. _; w2 V/ B. _: N人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 F$ ~+ [3 S2 d7 H% ]

' _$ I2 l. @. _( o$ KIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" U! @  h7 ?4 c) X& R2 J; E"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * w/ G5 u7 c5 h. h
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."