[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ f& C% T7 {7 @8 z1 Q0 v8 x- a! |8 C

9 B( c9 e% X8 x% K/ T* |据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de* l3 [/ z$ D. V9 D/ S6 B

7 a( j* U, z' J4 u研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区' z, A9 V' g, g# k3 a% U5 e& I0 Q

/ g8 D) s' l7 d) }- J8 q" s+ twww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 s) I4 K6 H+ @
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 ~6 p, ?# W" Z5 ^6 j
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( J7 z% j+ ^2 q8 s. c- i人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区! q  a& m# v8 f- R: e* s

' Q0 T1 d; O8 i  J" vwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 ?; C+ `' @' `3 Q; u8 [) d

4 U' q6 s) A& Uwww.csuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区3 S7 y4 n& l% F( l; Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' a7 r" P: w& I8 o6 KUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 Z" Z& D" r4 }- d5 A/ Q0 R, t6 rSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 R4 z' ]' x  y2 q* v  x2 C# vwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * n0 ]+ C$ \! o8 F" f
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区* H/ C4 B! T( [- m# |
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 v; O: E6 ?' F1 n  D

9 x$ ~4 Z  C1 i/ k"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 W( g( M, C2 @8 U* r  P+ @
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."