[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* v% _$ `4 K+ |% T6 L' z( E- ^

+ f2 E9 u7 a4 i* B据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) [3 `- Y' M* B! d1 l
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 a2 S) w% r+ A+ E! L% Z8 v; y4 `
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de/ ?' g! r; D( k* l7 F
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : |+ Y3 i+ ~) s. v

2 C2 p: U1 Y- B6 \' ]3 A6 z' fHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( {( i) s& y  G' Y% wwww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区5 T  z5 V# p" Q) ?$ v% k* Y

: W; G+ P, Z% ^  H1 l' j" D  R) dBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( i, y  Z$ v7 v! n! j

) ?6 {7 d) F9 p* z) MThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# T( [7 D8 H4 F5 \, Q  n& WLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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( }: A) N  h$ i' t+ A0 XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! N4 q- B/ A1 {0 l/ e. b1 OAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ e! H8 r4 L/ n* WThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . f7 ]; h% T0 F
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."