[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* p3 A5 t- }/ [

# R* h7 X( n: q! b0 X, t: n据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区# n/ \$ P# V8 p4 k, u' ^/ S
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& N6 O# v0 s0 h$ ^6 j, G2 z

9 Z7 {0 _# Z7 p/ N* p4 {根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ C! u; _5 F) x: s$ \" R

- J" L% b- d( b& |4 `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de2 _% N- _+ B. @! M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 X( Y9 S4 r3 r0 {  Q1 swww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* ]* e- c* {- @& kPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 S  A+ C# r6 v: c

( g6 a4 h+ O- W; R5 y' S5 N( Vwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区/ l6 y* Z0 N! f" I/ d. h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# n3 T) n7 p& E) \4 LLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ T/ U" ?+ o8 a5 t
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ M. I, |9 `8 S7 V- r0 T' v) c! s! j

3 ~  [6 l% c7 P1 D0 I5 ]www.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de" o* T  \1 v6 ^* k+ F
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , y& O0 Q) l' `0 M9 Z2 n( ]

9 Y0 L  g" T: C. `# o- m& YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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7 s% ^7 [$ p. c+ M- u5 Y$ Q+ B) T$ n人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- i  P8 U. x+ p) w9 }The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区0 O1 i7 M  l8 Z

9 s9 v& [+ f, n* @; [www.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区( c2 `# V( e# }8 a3 y

, p" i1 B! D8 }" b1 u4 I人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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7 G" {% [* Z* i- c$ kwww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 k, I$ s: R) H* ?, s/ D* ~"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."