[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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+ }" A9 h# S! L1 A8 q: @人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  \* F0 ^% n9 _4 r% n0 m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de4 n6 q; |, k7 o5 W
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区% t0 @% I7 p! Q, z5 v2 c" |
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区- s- d0 F1 |* i) T4 R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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! A; w8 J. K0 M) i, Q! P% v& KBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + m4 g* D1 x: d' Y

" X6 b. b1 W9 `/ M. @; A" E1 C人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ T5 f7 [1 k' N0 iLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; ?" Q" J6 Z0 v* I5 Q
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de% T& C' C" U$ o/ D, f
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区/ R3 `  s; T: @9 x9 q3 W

: E! ~: I' {( ^9 C6 C- W, y$ B+ e3 zUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 {* S9 G4 U! M) N3 @$ Y) d. hSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 O8 @' Z3 {( f4 _5 twww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : T" x" E/ e( U( H

, ]1 f% c, c4 D' ?人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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9 z, E" a( Z2 I7 z" ~6 BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " O; F* ^9 l, ^. h0 ?6 ^
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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7 C0 d1 A* `  o, \- A( L) F2 p7 W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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  Y# V+ H9 Q: I' q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."