[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 f0 E0 `7 ]0 ~' T据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 o1 c2 o3 A& @! x
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 l8 y- y& c9 [2 W5 Z

. m- h' \2 B  R7 P# G/ @根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + ^* e. ^' X# H; N' w
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 p- B9 o6 o& `8 j* c" |! wPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de. v% I# @4 B0 ?

% h6 f- b0 P. a6 H" g! s; G* e5 @0 \% f人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& ~3 |5 v& h: x8 \www.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% J9 t, F5 l/ M# ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) l. m  j/ r5 c& ]' G

8 h" c2 ]# p! ~$ F& @- h人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) J) f0 O7 _6 |5 b2 F5 t
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 z) `1 S$ u5 f! t& y* xUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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+ ?; t# p" I8 {- O4 W2 E/ SAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 J7 R+ L: i  H8 ?) R+ k人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / B9 c( g& G5 J& c  t: ]
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de* l. r8 ~2 ?8 g& ]6 u+ W( i

, t+ p. a6 {- f# O) ?0 f% wBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."