[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" T7 N, M" a' i
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! w  b5 Z' l/ l$ [' b* R# e4 g
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 Y  T) g. j- V& A

1 z$ s2 y6 T- o7 B, r( b& nWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 V; ]& `& [, e& _& p$ h. [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; t5 w! l3 I9 c) q人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 ~/ n' \8 N$ a% k4 bThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' K5 M! m& j0 H* M' M. {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + D" T9 [7 G! t0 y, I3 h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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" L; L0 ^) k, z6 F人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& y' a& e3 j& V2 B) C+ i- H( ]7 cAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de, Z+ A: n% a* M; f- ?: R& Q5 w

$ _/ I: ?& \- J( ^: P2 UThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: n/ {: h: b# o" HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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/ \% \" H. E9 b8 Y+ W- I, `  W1 tIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , b+ P4 _; Y2 X, I6 i

9 f' c  E3 O2 V& o"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区! e9 _9 w9 W, c. I7 \2 \

, a8 G, X' j1 k- K人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."