[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, R+ U( _. Q$ _
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 x( T* Z) ^" a9 q3 x; l: b( b
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。( ?! T. U1 H/ i  y: D0 x( u9 l
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- y9 s1 n. ^0 A# \www.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区, l; r8 t; T) W+ c
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 x0 H, A  V* {High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 j! j) j* g( T+ g( v9 N人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; I; z4 c$ M0 G

6 C3 }" x4 Z+ S- W3 l8 j# ^人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 |! X8 s4 {! E! y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . S) D. |8 s. D% U! I$ u
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 [# v, Y, r7 a3 N0 Q

! U0 J6 q# h6 a; Q3 Iwww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& j( `: s; S0 S" QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. / E& O  @8 |, @1 `& I8 B

6 c0 U5 g, }5 i5 W0 n; x人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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* h6 L' U5 G# h" n4 ?But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & J; u  E9 y& U* h' _" t
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."