[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 T' @5 u( X  {/ S# G# a2 E0 n

$ p2 L3 n3 G+ h" g8 O8 nwww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 D) Z6 _# }; G6 ^
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区6 E& S( n  l. b$ }8 l" B
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: X3 _! S1 O9 W3 h3 W% z2 p/ J( lwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' - Y: Z5 E- ^7 R4 {' T' m" P% Z' Y$ Z

% ?% l: n' y' A( i0 n3 p人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区6 J: z' ]1 Z4 A  f! p& Y% J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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, u( o! ?1 S" P; _0 rwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de0 Q. T- j. E/ L. C7 d( B0 }8 ]4 }: }
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de2 C0 y: q; J* ~1 S
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* f; p# Q1 C( c& G( d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( d9 [) O) T9 [# w! `5 u
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区4 b3 p4 B0 N, S5 g# j2 p; b* z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区5 C  I; a! z# ?# b" J

# g7 U; M- e: nThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: f  b( [. f- k: CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区. z7 l% f7 l, W+ c$ w" ~
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# w* b% E5 y; K"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 i/ U; y. f5 _  t% K( C3 _" Z( a

0 Q8 C- ]# z7 E$ V+ y0 `6 q% t( ^5 f人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."