[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 d2 s* Q6 \) N+ @2 {* i; e

) a7 _9 y8 I) M4 r( y. _) pwww.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de0 [  D% U# x! w. k" [; c8 Q
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ p, K/ j. ^% `! D2 l0 }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. L4 D- X9 u. u) F' J. OWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' " ~- m" n$ m9 k7 \
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# q. b# ]  ^4 I# B; k0 M人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* o0 z, P* G! X' U8 @0 b' Zwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & B. ]5 k) w* A: B
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / m6 I* w) ~/ q9 @

1 U% P( Y2 w# E2 s$ U人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& y& z- k- n) i3 N' X3 ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 V9 T, k# x: {  [
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 S# [* C9 D) G* m- h人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + C5 N: a2 p! h/ w
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# j. q7 i" F) X4 I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* w, V- @& ]0 l"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."