[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ X$ x8 R' ]/ v1 Y  |+ B0 U5 V5 N

. t# H4 y5 z; B+ j人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) Y/ C% `, l, Y7 v

- ^8 V; D6 I4 z人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 I( E; T, b/ P" l" @# s) e
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 P' Z( Z2 W; r$ x0 q  E1 ?/ q- K研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 ?, l( O8 W  A2 \1 }6 k
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de& F+ L' O9 K. N" Z1 C/ [" Y

1 x3 M& q2 }, V! z人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% r- L# J% N5 K2 B5 M7 A人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- x% i# b- k! b1 j人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; k6 V/ K$ L! A& DLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, ~0 }; A. k& _  ^/ l/ swww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; q6 q/ S. _* H: Y6 lSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 P  d6 c+ i- [+ q3 @

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * ?$ ?6 c; R, b! C$ O8 \+ e( `$ r

# V/ E0 [" W" Z7 D$ l; K" M. W4 ~人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / G3 \3 B( k/ `1 f

/ a/ C- L, C4 r6 M, W8 P# _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % O8 {" [7 ^+ {$ n2 y! M0 y( q( j

' |: w7 h* }. s人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区0 k5 r% _, M# S) g5 s  W

  [* {3 c/ `# E; ?+ }7 r& \www.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 s3 E' T! [4 Y  B
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."