[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  A$ M/ O% O' Z! X  a' ^& D5 ]* n研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区7 s0 E, U: w/ o9 T
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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3 b  |3 H% U( H4 Z4 u' W$ S/ NWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 R# y7 h9 H: x2 @( I! U6 w  B/ `

) E; T) S; {7 y  G2 d人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) E4 M, \" S, @4 t  z0 E+ M; V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de- q) t; b; H- ^3 d& A; s; n
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% v: J) G* L$ _, C& b, u/ ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 f4 y& @: p3 U2 {6 v0 g) O0 b$ Q
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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2 M4 @) B4 K: ?  C0 T' y6 Q+ y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % }& Y. I* x( }7 H. Z6 z$ _, q1 Y

4 z0 {- k" h0 ?- }7 _+ ~8 B/ l8 bUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 j( B8 b0 _$ a% G& U% `" CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 P; z, K3 r# ?& j+ vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区/ L8 @+ ^/ y/ c) b8 D
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 U+ B8 G; k* s0 w! \0 |0 a2 D; l6 Pwww.csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de& t3 K2 W. l  U, l# A
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: e/ ~6 C. Q! i3 _0 Mwww.csuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 [- U7 A+ w0 c3 R2 d/ \

7 K! ]' p+ s, o8 E"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."