[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 C. x- n( ~' K. R% f人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: E5 k. v/ t; e3 T2 v' k/ B) N1 H

  [  ^% C/ h& P1 ^www.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. o0 @& s% l) w
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 ~8 v" p) a% s* M$ o3 G+ _
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " G6 A  a& F" X/ r: s% i' U3 W
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区* r7 L* f9 f9 x

/ P6 H2 `, w( C  @  V2 B. }" q3 A人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " Z5 q0 T1 I+ q& K2 D

/ S3 ?: \6 \$ j8 q; I% l"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ s* D: `( R4 p, \6 c人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 \2 U" y  L( a: |+ A) U/ ?: }

, ~% v# A& x" R# P3 wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " ]) ?$ d% O4 ~+ Q; ]

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" f: C( w9 L; b6 i0 ?; _3 }" tAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % B. o9 \& T% Z0 ~' B1 J; n
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & |% i" N! P5 X* V

$ d8 @+ n; l6 l( Z0 uwww.csuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) z7 U; s' J- p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."