[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区5 ~, x8 {3 h1 d5 w/ q
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 N( ?5 w' @1 \& |7 v' n
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" s+ Q  ^; g! @4 k/ o0 R# E人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de$ ~8 w4 F9 x$ J$ P. a5 [0 j
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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7 Q& W8 a+ Y1 b, d' W# G+ ?9 zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ; Z* s7 g4 x0 Q1 t  S( B0 r8 o% o
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区9 a  [' ?4 M: K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - S' u2 A3 s. v# _8 H  G# J4 {2 E- O$ Z& {

" h8 L* a" n6 A: _4 t  I' m$ [4 Z人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   _# o5 ]4 Q: ~' L/ E

+ d& y& t& A9 E5 l. m) N人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ @# {2 ]& K; |8 W. Z- gLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % y( t: ~0 |+ F1 |6 Q. i

% I; Y9 X! S$ g5 H0 J$ f人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % r7 q8 Q8 p* ?6 X% U

; A3 L7 j4 ^8 B) [  xUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 o0 r4 F0 x' @+ X/ y

3 @* X7 [3 |; ^Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # T4 h8 N) b3 S+ u
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 C$ O* w# k/ P$ j2 F; G# d' bThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : y1 a' [7 Y* Y

7 ?- z' n0 Z$ l5 e" d. ]3 W0 lwww.csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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% Q& Y% K2 g- s' V/ V0 f& V$ @" M"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."