[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ Z2 m* Z  C$ {; J& A" \8 C研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区, M. \$ l' o. g; L7 d
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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  W, ~0 k- f) W. e' T2 i6 ?& I人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 h1 V) y+ V6 o) ?- }Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 A8 C7 }: d& M* N" n) z* K" QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ |& E' O3 a) C5 Z6 u& g. t9 DBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 1 P/ |/ {2 G8 g5 N' h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   l8 t9 s7 q) }2 e- N' L

/ m- u9 P5 Y3 f' m8 ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. ?$ I7 `0 r0 ~8 T9 g5 G"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / R; j& P) K3 V; A* m0 x8 F

, m* C- t1 N* C+ A"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 e0 ]7 V# |/ b. vUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / T: J$ p* y, F& l& N3 g0 q) D6 q9 k" U
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. www.csuchen.de0 }4 k- w- f/ s' q, x0 M% q
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- c$ K& \) l9 U- G3 T. {Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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. z3 G! R+ l  }( o8 V0 mwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! s+ W. l* i  `4 d' P. p人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # x0 s" c. H6 d% Q/ q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " |. U) o7 D7 R; ?: Y4 \

" |' M" y( b2 z: X7 P6 m8 @人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % l2 A( b' i# u0 z& l0 W7 P! N7 Y
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."