[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. v- N! I9 l8 m! V1 @: l

6 ~7 }+ W+ I% o  S0 [4 n据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 f% s3 \" P6 W& Y

9 ?, E9 m8 F4 d7 k- N* q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 W+ f# }9 q) |

& \7 V" j/ E. v3 C( P5 A  w人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de9 }; W8 d( l6 K0 |" m' A( E
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 ^+ l4 Q4 h4 _, ^6 p* VWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ }6 g2 O9 x6 U4 ?! M. V, z3 b& jHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   u- ~. k5 s% N6 Y: c+ t
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de7 C$ V8 f  j4 F, @% M
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 ^3 d; `, G6 c) p5 w; LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " o# @. P4 Q9 I7 S

! A% X  i6 n+ o- w- X人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' e7 J% p  }- ~) b- PUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区) `  u- {) T- D/ Q. R. E( Q

5 a% r) y7 v0 J8 {! X! zSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! P5 |( `  ?7 u6 p2 T
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' X5 q0 C- U$ R3 M! |- u. F9 Ewww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! R# B7 C$ y0 _% E- `人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . f% R4 t! ]$ g5 i9 s9 ~. G

: `% ]% p7 m3 y) X4 |' ~! YBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 P# D- j! D* E8 E
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."