[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; f% ~) X. q6 T3 B- o

2 }% R; Q# J5 ^" U据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' d6 b! W3 j4 {3 i0 Q: S! ]# w人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# w( I8 m5 D9 H1 R: E; {+ uwww.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 f8 H2 x/ Z! [+ J人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & v* o! N9 O. k7 a. w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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) r. v  w1 t/ L# a4 x: m人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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6 [' `; f6 k; v' ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % R9 ^" {5 t( S  R

6 ~) c- D" p$ T) F% K2 F  b"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; G  a$ f. ]9 M; k; V3 F) O& d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ i1 q% c: |- Z3 t" G1 lUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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: v9 K. G; T2 ~, f# {3 R% kwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 }9 e8 U7 l, z人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de( h) g( I0 O: n3 d  }9 |

# M0 M7 f5 ?7 e* }But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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9 G& C1 _: Q! @: s& E. x9 \Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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0 w: k$ M& t4 }) d' x* ^* s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + w3 I& z! S' G0 `3 J; ~
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."