[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* H9 v& J5 N( q# ]据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de& A, y3 b- ]( y/ a, u

# m1 L6 m& w/ M% R0 d. J% G研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" L% E$ I0 |& e: _; {$ R$ g
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。4 w2 w( j* D" H+ M! a, B) G. v
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de& z0 G1 B& E% U2 P! L1 `; W( }/ s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 w9 p& W6 c% C: ?1 T$ o* \Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 N% A4 M+ I" j6 I  r$ E
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 w& n9 X/ f/ ]8 M  W8 s) ~7 |

2 M. _+ Q1 {) q+ x, h' o人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 I+ p3 @' h7 y+ L9 L7 w8 a  \5 x

1 o: J" K) C: X3 j& D6 Pwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 k7 ?2 D0 i+ Y! O1 p"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de4 B% ^, b4 H$ i/ Y! ?4 Y; R. m  Q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . ^3 M! C4 W/ O  a
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: ?/ g9 P5 t" R2 D) e3 ~www.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区; Q' O, _2 L% p$ `2 I8 e, `
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: G. f6 ?6 j# z: [But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : p: s8 ^* C% u$ s- n3 q0 s

* E! `/ {9 y3 l9 |7 qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de& O& e' j, `, [1 ~) i1 q& q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* z5 F8 q' U+ H$ Z% f"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."