[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* W  K6 q: X" P6 g! ], u

3 h# T$ `% \) h; R1 k( }- I根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 J# `$ K1 t; C6 V  |& O研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; `+ {/ @7 K8 `+ X- s+ |3 K

( L# b9 |4 r! O( hWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区5 N4 q3 M) z7 M2 S" [6 L' r" b
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de( f# C7 A7 g# }* n2 V' h4 r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " R4 ]6 V! W% {7 n; F  P& K

* y5 ~* D* i8 a% ZBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de5 V+ E4 a3 u" u  ]

9 z$ r( I( i8 q: @9 Y# a" LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区0 F# ]/ o: T$ @+ o7 C7 h% d

, F' X$ M' y. y) J) ]Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 j7 w3 ]/ c6 K! z. c
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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- ?7 y, E- [* |: F+ ~Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 @  X8 V3 i' n6 S/ }4 s) H2 K1 K1 }) I
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * z# {* a" `7 P. C$ r0 \

" O5 ~& T3 _( {" j9 E- }5 v: Ewww.csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 ~1 s% [. [9 v& r
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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/ S' e9 x: z0 h, t) g( [- R人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."