[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 c8 Y6 @+ C9 x% X
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  F' d' Z0 n0 T, O
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 p1 c# V) f# V6 ~4 b2 X
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区  o+ p7 s' }, O2 s/ o; c
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de2 E* ~* y4 Q- U$ w9 F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 @: ^; l3 _: U2 A2 g: [  cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & E6 w7 w9 K% |" L% _3 H- o

2 r( y- E( r6 j7 J: P0 l. T- H. [; D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , O) P$ Y, m) ^$ P2 }2 z

$ H, U$ N8 B7 M% b4 N6 `8 I5 Y5 r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 \4 e5 Q# k$ ^, B5 j. s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区" W3 Z4 w. H. W, W) [; j  b% e
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de5 I! D& c/ ^+ u$ d/ D

7 ~$ T" x( s. x6 k% aThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; [. s3 h: z* J9 S8 ?3 T
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 ^2 O& k' G3 j! b& n5 n

. ~) E- g% u2 n6 V0 D4 Z) T人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * h% d& \8 D( s0 L6 \( d6 z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区) N3 M( h0 _9 d. Q

9 `; T. F# j' q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 O7 Q" ?7 U( {# J# F0 o人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."