[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区. V/ T$ [; |- b# v% C

% l+ t4 R" e( U5 n7 l2 s据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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, O5 b, `/ ^' ~$ ?5 k研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de5 Z" x' v. u& a6 i$ _/ e1 \
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区+ S. v6 _: Y; {% s
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 E+ V- [' Z7 G2 B' h2 k& P  BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区! J, W: D' W4 x( W4 J- |
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 }9 ^* u4 T  R6 K' Kwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 n& p1 _  Y0 L$ R* P& _6 y  _# ]; rLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  m+ u. P% K# W6 h! ]( L! n/ U/ zSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # K% @! A8 E! m6 T
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) _) x6 K# ]. F- x$ U; J5 N; bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ ~: m6 H; ~/ B7 F! r% G  q3 X9 `The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! Y* I; i: K, b" b% N4 R( C  Q3 f
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" k% T4 Q+ V2 W0 W- iIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 d! |! ^3 V, h/ p0 s* e4 X

1 |' s; ?. S/ m9 a1 I7 C; K"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de8 w7 ~7 D( j4 |& v7 z( R

$ i4 f4 S# h0 W+ S; ^, Z人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."