[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 A* a3 v" D( ^  ?/ I
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ N6 C0 o; u  i- w5 y

4 k9 m" S! b1 a- uwww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 c) e- n1 _+ K1 x: K5 I
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区; h4 f5 f6 s6 f# y/ p' ?1 Q
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 m- U9 z4 W6 a3 g0 Z" C
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - b/ ?$ P; ]0 l: j- [* H* S) o
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; N! Q4 h  z9 P6 @# r人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ J! k) u# W0 S. ?* @0 N& q' OLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % L' I. |; i* }1 u3 Q

# G8 F( k' k: _8 }"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . v$ ?% |4 E! L- V& {
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : W& h  q2 Q* s2 H' r5 Y* @) K

6 ^( [& h. k" V* gwww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 i; \: q: d, y! |* t! ^# t& q
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de2 o, ]7 K1 }8 U+ {8 C* @& X5 {

7 E( f  o: I, x; sThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 C4 D5 |7 @( ?) k/ NThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de: O# O2 T+ L1 ?2 O" n- _

5 H' d7 F7 o! b; I( owww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区9 C. H! L/ P2 \1 z" X! j" P
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de5 V4 ~3 \8 n' A& U

* m, X8 U* l# W$ ?2 s5 }% ^" a* g1 r"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."