[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 `6 w% c- c5 O; Q

; M$ J- I) E) c: i; w- j! gwww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% L6 R6 U3 p' ~6 H' `) k

) B; |8 q; d- k9 M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ n% e7 T' N$ b5 g8 n, O, `, ]% H研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区: ^( n4 B5 W, x; t. p; {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 Y! Z) ]  s  |" F' |2 D& `
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " C+ r0 ]$ G; _8 n/ i" E+ @$ y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de& |  n. V8 o8 f0 L
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ X! Q  S. @( _Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区" \) G0 z3 l% @- u3 P, s

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 m/ |* Q6 d9 r. u( {The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * b: C% s3 u' [: W
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( x! x  B  C/ Z6 M

! e8 ~& l" X9 m7 b8 e8 MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. www.csuchen.de2 i, b5 N# M2 \+ V* x& `/ P
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 j  k; u" N' D$ K1 b"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."