[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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/ ?6 o" S% \0 Dwww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& s# _. {3 H0 C# [
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 K1 {* v; E/ N- L7 o5 k6 D" y# \
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 Z3 Y5 s8 z! D" V% g  p/ q4 o

2 O" G/ l% p) _1 x$ ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ u7 A2 H/ @7 N- tPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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. s9 M! ]+ [  A# {% M$ e人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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" K9 ], Z0 P4 v0 ~8 V+ zwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区! O2 `* z3 m+ H" u9 Q

) l) J3 F: D- @# W* yLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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9 K8 M0 n7 u$ U6 g8 d8 w0 K"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 U: T$ S4 k/ M  ?' X8 p2 N" I人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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+ ?7 z: y. g7 ^0 R4 `人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , w! s% _( c- A9 C6 ]& q, c

. {" T+ Q# E+ w' `( Zwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ R  b! X( O! m8 r2 nThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- \: w% |- ?; Bwww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 d. ^$ O6 {: I2 j& w3 a
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de( ^4 y9 r1 z' o" V0 l$ t

3 i$ ^# Y( Y- I" F- M+ G! D; v1 Ywww.csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."