[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 b. K/ A6 G0 B8 K1 A' S( t

% d5 k# V+ N" K5 X5 n9 a* ]据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  H! J8 {8 a( D9 R研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 [, u( X# g6 d) Y0 h5 E
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' , x0 [9 @$ n' H5 G/ Z0 t$ W

9 G$ S0 H$ E0 m9 |" JHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! Z% M8 E! q: wPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de# K; _. d5 n9 b+ H/ B

  m, Z2 W1 P/ \% z5 X; k1 _www.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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- w/ l# \4 d5 _. z人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) p+ x6 r6 r  n5 `* L人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区+ [" D5 W1 Q8 U) @" U
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # L9 k/ }) |- h( h: \3 E; `8 ^

3 e$ q% h2 u- m- ^' F) J/ y$ A"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 ~/ ]+ ~% M- H+ y7 Y

! s( K1 y& J$ l1 G4 h, K. c4 T+ uUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de, F0 u- Z0 N( k7 a4 A# v( w' W

1 N" a# _% F- h* L+ B8 K1 ]Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 g5 k* Q7 c4 F0 ?The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - |/ W' Z4 a6 [/ l) j

5 e) u9 `, \# F% l0 Xwww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % h/ t. L- N/ }, ~% a( B
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区5 g$ ~# y: N$ |2 _, M+ D) k
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."