[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  F/ ^/ t8 h* j6 S" O7 T4 Owww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ q6 q4 b4 B# m1 M' {

4 D/ Y  k' T. P& s7 B' ~* ?1 o" Pwww.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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& o' c# ?% g# V- {' N5 M7 a: W根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* a- l. e* t: |$ t! S1 x! P" y# h2 m

% D/ K% L' a- L8 K' ~5 a研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ A$ n3 {) l* o; L* x& p7 ]& g
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de, }- O, f# A& U% P

: v$ L) \0 s' N' {* IHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; O* z4 u% e( L/ T$ M, |
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 v) ?  Z0 ^5 e+ c8 D7 bBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de$ w- v( }8 R- [) m6 B/ Y

: Y, _9 e& g% E2 i1 ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   U6 B2 m+ K0 F/ l/ T$ q  S) S
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * t. ~. B2 U- O" Z
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6 ^0 [% z' _5 `  v5 \3 N2 q+ MAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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  {; H$ p4 v. d8 H& EThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 e, N- `2 x( b0 Vwww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' ~+ _4 `) d  v: k( R$ ?: S7 xwww.csuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de8 o/ d- ^, ^! Z6 p9 u

; J( P% Q! y  ^# n8 L$ ~4 p"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."