[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 f* h% R+ j: j8 g: X/ O
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. o; d' Q$ ]# J$ T* HWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 Y# l7 T6 [8 V# |High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ X& _( u0 m1 i5 `4 Iwww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 i) C' f2 M2 Q$ M. I" j

8 j$ _# {( Q! h  f  JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 R. ^7 e$ t& l4 o3 p. ^) C
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( ~4 [" M/ l# {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' [% L) p, |- |, |5 n' ^www.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   M( L, D  E( T7 G0 L& @

# e! q0 U) R& Z6 e% I% Ewww.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区. [; @0 j# Y3 n9 W6 U, U+ g# f
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6 O& Q$ L6 n1 nAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' a' _/ v% u' j( j! A

$ f8 \2 w& S" V- T人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ m+ _# U8 F* y% _- lwww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# q4 `( l# s0 e( ]: l: m' ?/ o" bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ L% M8 ^7 e) q

+ B* \3 r" ^: I! iwww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."