[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% x) g+ i% w% b2 U, ?2 l" R& Q
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 Q) j- l$ ~0 j: ]0 ?

0 e5 V1 V- A' h) N. u* ]人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de3 B3 h7 M& v. m
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* B: Q, _; H; }% a3 a8 ^$ Q; D# L

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# S/ G0 w7 ]* W8 O5 EHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 Y, D" _% I% T3 N5 s4 B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区8 a; r) V1 m9 E/ X  U7 _

9 J- f2 r+ f- @/ i9 n6 PBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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) I9 C- ?% ]: q5 t: yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / D, k3 I) O( L) Z+ N0 t
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; {5 E' ~$ J; D$ P8 O0 J6 `. X
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 `6 e3 @1 l1 D- o) X- HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区! i! y4 t" F+ b1 A/ N. \# H
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' S" q& F1 E% {" r, i$ |
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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% A* ^, L' h' s  h$ y2 {- T5 Rwww.csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."