[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 l! ^( R) e- Q  i! R% _4 ~
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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' S0 T" A7 _& p% n  E5 v6 l人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de2 M7 r6 N9 _: V4 j/ B3 X

0 l; N: {5 q( W* o+ q, g) CWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ; E: g# E, Y" j5 v# b% B
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   Q9 o3 P: e6 t0 b- f. i! S$ B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + T, G$ Q" @* X4 K+ N# a9 I' U
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区6 X1 {) c+ L& c2 r, l

0 L1 Z3 n0 ~! @! h$ y: D8 C"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de; A; K5 m8 z5 _

3 ]  ^6 G9 H+ s& Vwww.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' k( |) C2 T( R" wwww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区+ Y# @" I: Q) I6 ~, X. o0 H  P, s% D

/ h4 A  }) Y9 N; H' v" N" [, \' U  uSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' j8 r: a! `7 r* R" H
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0 W+ r5 C0 {+ ~. \Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# O/ G0 Q! X4 J. E( y9 V. fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 {' p  i$ C4 z5 k& h' X. p3 U0 {But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ d& Q; P* c8 I% U, e9 }, b3 jIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."