[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; F. O- h0 L  F! |6 e
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' ?( O1 S9 S3 _4 T
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de8 |2 O+ K6 P& G6 j2 I% C4 Z/ b8 C

, S0 S" U) T8 t人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, W: z, b/ m1 L4 I: G

3 V" [1 }, W- D9 g1 I人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" \$ O' V% g/ d

, u: W$ P: o' T$ f7 m+ j6 Xwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( Y& j) L: T2 P1 k& NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 j" r5 P' D1 k; O

! _$ l$ b# u" _5 l4 n6 l1 @人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * `' F$ L. j  L4 H
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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: o) b% r( e  m: D2 e" A( Awww.csuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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2 x: R1 \2 r$ c. V"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 d! u3 H; U6 d) N; ?$ H  J# I- |人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 X, [' [0 E  GSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % {: o0 [+ i) L/ i0 m" M5 b; A

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; r" m* O) _8 U$ {* G1 m4 f人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de; r8 Q! F7 `, e9 z# p

) E% l+ O& g1 a$ ^; j' @+ [. ]$ S人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " ]3 `' r4 P! J
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( Q  M: F( X. F! \
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " k$ t/ V$ G  R0 @
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."