[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! I4 w: t0 E  S/ Z" u
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区! W0 w+ E2 H4 C3 y, h+ N
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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& P7 p1 \& c& G  H7 |! S8 C* j根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) W" x' _$ \" y0 [4 v5 l6 w
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de  ?$ u) D& D& [3 f. P, H9 \8 e

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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ e0 I" w; f% u& c* g" m0 f, W
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & I2 F& N3 o7 c/ ?+ u! L
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , W* g+ ^3 v; W

7 E  P6 v+ X, `2 E8 o0 kThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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: n2 ?( [* d, B' KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de: e5 i. n5 t0 m. P+ y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! s/ W' ]+ ~2 }# d% O

# y7 C- L; g6 A& a) yUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; L" G$ x# t  C

8 B" l3 U, k9 O8 w  a. kSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. & D1 B, B( l* W6 ^1 X
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 7 i7 R& I! b* l5 b! M

, t$ {) B! o& W8 ?+ s% S3 u" o  Mwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : f$ O, t1 j1 y2 \9 Q! ?' p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 _5 z. k( y, D& G' V
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 g! X# A6 N. a$ q7 o% \
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."