[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ T  [) a) `* w  C
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 ?7 w, ?. ?5 N6 X

$ q7 O1 O8 E6 M$ m) Swww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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! Z( i. Q6 A- z( [High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 T5 S: r2 U2 w9 m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 M4 E* z9 s+ C) xwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! u' t# A( k3 l  A9 s9 C* Owww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! F/ l7 ?( [1 E4 @/ v; e- r

* _2 ]* ~. O5 o3 w" H) r2 ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de) p" L1 R) x/ e$ I

+ V% o2 N; J. k% k% b' Y2 M% Q人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) s, s$ g" J+ P4 l# H

6 }0 ?& O8 H. z0 @5 ?' P' U2 F"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区$ n6 L  R0 H3 q; h/ s. L
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 b5 q; L9 ], t. p0 u
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0 G/ s# H6 @8 N3 O( _) Y" Zwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) x$ i7 g* j/ j* S0 |

5 f$ i/ d( z& a, M) \The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区  U3 l1 e% i: R* s! K
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* Q5 u' R2 B" M( A% W" {0 ]2 y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."