[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。/ G* d. g) \' N0 f: V
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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! g: Z) y8 z* H  U8 wwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区( N! Q& `2 ^* @; M+ D" Z3 \' m
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" \3 {  U1 U% ^9 L' vPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! f6 r8 u0 @# k& ?$ y: c+ q+ i
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , d5 M/ ~6 s$ z8 ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! y5 S) ]1 y1 g5 i

# X6 X( y9 ]# `. Q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) M* `( k& F5 f; k9 c, h1 O

. D/ n5 Z4 I# F# R% N, v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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+ Z5 a3 v6 S& S, L1 Q3 w, qUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ r, F9 r0 T: Y! m# }

, n- [" E- a2 ?1 N# |; `7 x2 Wwww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 x$ u) D" z1 L4 r! a9 A% _/ zwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : }* T: U9 x$ Y4 b) [% j# ?8 O

% q3 b8 O, i8 UBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 x4 V# N9 G% m/ a- Z

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/ i! m/ f' h7 u( C"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区% O! P0 i) s* k7 [0 B8 _, v

: S3 [; G! B  `/ ^/ m& G3 |3 h"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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