[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 i- `) n, ~( t( u+ g3 @  d据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 b  }: j8 h7 j0 z8 y研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区" U4 b; U3 w9 x2 a
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 M4 M5 p0 r% Cwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. y7 G% y, [* i8 p0 {Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 q  k0 [) K- `' c4 C

: X' j2 k5 ]5 aBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. www.csuchen.de- n5 P1 U4 P6 u6 s5 `# b/ ^$ G6 l" i

( w. l/ M* X1 [& TThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 L; a% V+ N. a# D6 C, RLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * x1 e; c" h" n& C8 y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 a& r. L0 H, ~' ^& G* |

4 f& y. d2 c+ @/ @0 W$ B1 p. |& |' y人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de8 F( Z1 S+ ~, i( g
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 d" o" K; Q/ N2 R7 N7 J! q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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; L& @+ O6 \; m( B/ T9 Twww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / I9 B8 q) h2 y' M( K
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 h$ r; c9 A4 }" R9 z3 n- wIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : n! G5 i# ?$ E( T" D
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 J* Z' @( t' @# `9 b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."