[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 j. \; S8 O/ O" E7 n: L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 [8 j0 Y; `$ u9 }
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) d0 |2 }) ]4 ]9 ]; m1 ?7 y' H: H人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 M) E+ y; }$ [) c& R+ i2 N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; l1 [& S& @. ^7 A1 S) d' u& [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! a7 v: b1 q% C

$ G/ R4 A0 P2 `! K) xThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( A% A& f: V1 ~7 H9 r6 X" L8 L
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( a% |' H1 w/ k; e2 }4 x. ?* |: c  ^"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区% k* M/ t# h4 J5 _2 W$ e% }3 ~* \3 z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. - O! H& v( f! Q/ X: X+ O

2 O8 F* [2 z& W5 h$ BSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * `( h. F$ z6 X

; i/ N4 l# ^6 Q% E* R- G. X; M% SBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 ~: J- N! G  f% `- ?2 v$ qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."