[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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7 B& E1 z2 m6 k人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 B- w4 [3 j& h5 y5 H研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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3 o- W8 N$ P" n, \- f9 w( [人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区& L1 s: c8 W* i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# I9 g$ \" w, I* b# x& O, qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, K; P0 Z$ E6 k$ V7 X( K# c3 VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 i5 ~3 Z6 r" _* A& V& ^! w8 h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, f% S. ^2 ~3 l+ c0 o7 [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 ?: y' R: x6 L5 I1 M% L2 P* zwww.csuchen.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( n5 ?( d* I/ F3 z0 y& X) i: H! a
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 N4 R1 u: N7 J9 q5 x9 x& ?人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- p8 g  S' \0 C+ FThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de" \4 Q8 N/ n: \& R+ `6 s

* U  R+ z3 U# l3 \The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ e" W8 J! Z+ o  Y# c8 B- T* |  X! C

' N9 O5 M& Y) `7 F( PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. y+ `* X! M$ ?" ]. o2 UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, t" E9 e! R* o0 @) e& s, _人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de3 }) e8 e: h9 I; K  P8 R2 A: C
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."