[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* q# |( W, {/ R* _( K) y( _
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 S% S6 x9 J1 ]  Q9 B
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- g3 a  F1 f$ p. x; T  d

7 X7 p1 ?  M) e$ S: V/ _/ O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. _; k+ ~8 K3 Z/ [: p
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de( i/ K/ y! `8 q1 ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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" t, N) J0 }( U  f1 Q# ?The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de$ l0 e. F& d6 B; C$ ]
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de) a- M: T# I3 E( s& A1 Z8 c( @
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 h, _3 `; x) z- L- l0 v

" c; ^# t/ x2 [8 Y* fUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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$ y& o* j5 Y4 B5 X7 {www.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区% S+ Z  ^0 W% H0 l
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de7 l) n8 Q  u- t
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区6 E3 M+ z" @3 F4 g1 x6 J7 z

8 B4 l+ D5 d  q/ u! vIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 }7 k% j; l2 m, H

* f1 V% z8 n/ U" c& k$ L人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."