[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。www.csuchen.de0 l8 w5 x7 a8 t/ V0 l1 E) Z

% t4 A! o8 t4 M: c2 X# B! T' H& F2 ~www.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) @4 H& k. R$ y! `人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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* H' i7 L1 f4 D  _) i0 h4 S7 d8 a根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de" P  x) u: `1 m2 S* Q% ?+ k  h" G
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ Y' ^/ n. E1 v1 G) J

* ~% i# ?, u0 G% q9 m% q% w# j4 C2 kWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + M& Y  f$ d, b6 @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.   t8 M  h( R+ y% a

7 g4 _2 {- `& Q' HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 n& z; F3 K- N; O% U5 e- c4 q+ AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区! U0 D; P+ q% [  P  N# j3 w
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". www.csuchen.de' {; b4 A+ r' e, i: T0 `1 v. v
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. : i8 }1 M& }! h* m
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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( g& ?- d9 m. K4 ^- |www.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 p2 k; E* W/ t- q5 [

) J/ I3 M$ C/ X9 w* [1 A) iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , I$ M, s! x; S. [  ]1 w+ y# \
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+ {* W1 G& k4 O9 i6 j1 nAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ n8 C- q7 U. C7 V' C# K人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( e4 Y' _5 y7 G9 i. w% }0 z# `0 U  R

5 o! {7 t- z$ M9 kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / v7 b+ N; w9 s. L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区# l& B9 \/ J6 {8 k7 H% q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) ^9 f% s5 T; A' d
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."