[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 }; s# `8 A# f$ h# J+ Q: o
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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( {3 g) p1 {7 [6 }$ t/ ?$ P- L* L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ m+ u# V, V4 z) s% Z+ K# _; B

9 l7 P  ~. h4 E根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 b2 V9 [( _  \/ q, S' |
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) E# u' b( I. l3 D$ _: I. \- cwww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. / D: p6 G2 ]: w
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' T2 _0 e, z9 J# t& f8 k) ?9 c) T

4 J$ J2 H- h/ R+ c  B. W2 E( T人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区" k+ u& ?+ E" k3 R2 ~8 d6 p5 J, V
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 W/ G' |9 T$ g! ~$ ~7 b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de+ C/ f2 W$ R- V1 L
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 X+ }: g, A: r, t7 R8 j# \Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 s/ Z6 j' O. r7 z7 t7 i
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 z* e- @' ]7 D7 S) W- P0 ^1 xThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" a; J" T. o1 V5 Y人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' _- C3 p; j2 w0 ^" H人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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+ O6 S. {( q! j! P. c1 Z; ~"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / w  f2 A# r  B8 \% D  [6 [$ a
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."