[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 l$ m3 m8 a( C8 a: U0 K研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de9 W- H& B7 b% M" H! b! a( N
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区  F5 I% T4 W9 ~. v

: E/ u  V% B. @8 u' |研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* D) J% D! h0 t; R" k6 e: k0 G- H2 L

& b. \# l0 W7 m2 }Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ' f; X' P5 [" U) o* r8 X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ z, r: q* c' k' `6 `$ M3 n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 a$ _! w; g4 F7 |$ d. o1 sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区6 A% g& |" N& I9 k, _( T

' f0 X% {9 f' B2 N- EThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 a5 y! U: @5 V9 Z( e1 D. C人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) f1 q: `4 Y) M& _$ W9 Y0 X2 ]
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区/ u( E) a3 a' m1 P% S# K

  X1 x4 T, ~7 _8 X; _"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 u- H" @. P9 ]5 |Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区$ H* f1 z* h  V$ ]; K% O! x% D
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ q9 Z/ ]' f6 h7 p' c6 yThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 i7 Z3 }& g1 }( j7 {6 {4 U1 ~人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   I8 L7 x. P& {

% s9 D. c6 R# W+ }) e6 aBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & r; E) n/ F/ _/ u4 h! d

3 P( D7 v4 k! XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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$ r, Y+ i, o/ W* [: W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区/ s' t5 X8 H8 L; k
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."