[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- x5 T7 ?* ]9 G) i

) }3 c: z# O: [! y5 y人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 a8 x( l' c2 N% D( M# _
www.csuchen.de& Q- e( o  W5 ?( A
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 ?! u$ p! l2 u, i7 N3 [) J

9 \! K, ^7 \; d- s5 l9 G" {人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区) R- R0 g% l" ]" N

- b; N0 W: {2 ?$ B2 Cwww.csuchen.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
* {4 }# S, U7 E3 j) o8 H
+ C0 J+ [2 c0 N人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de5 n* ~  a) j- R' b. j. t- y

' Q; f# ]2 w; v! p# F0 c人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / O7 j( ]/ _9 h6 C  a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 {) z8 a/ T' W

/ Q# Q+ F. F  o. ?% `www.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区, d* x. d% a# o. G
5 ~0 |0 P. G6 m  ]7 T
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 b6 K3 t& a" r0 }
$ w; Z& ?, x" {, L
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( g; s' O- h7 |: t+ M1 x

; ~; }3 \  ?& z5 {"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
/ n5 M6 u- `" R/ N0 n2 L5 k0 @6 l+ E! c2 m/ ^# I4 J/ i/ p$ @
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . H# J% [6 m- G; d) ]
www.csuchen.de! p. t: g& V4 }0 h7 Q! Q; T
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 {7 G6 z* U6 t# W

% e! n6 b3 U& |: h, D7 O7 _Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
2 U, ]& }% w  b  b8 t; t" h( q7 \% p- E! f% W5 q
Profession www.csuchen.de. M4 u/ `! B. E! y0 K2 _( ]5 u

3 P" q4 e3 Q4 r; G2 s: N5 tAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
8 R) y# M0 G4 f1 @! ^人在德国 社区7 o4 i& p1 y0 E9 Q$ ]6 j; e- O+ r
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
6 ^, t( L9 s/ P. A1 d人在德国 社区
  x7 o. H# ^1 a, G1 @. m' e& p. NThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
/ l6 U, C7 S+ T4 L; ]' J. Q% @# Y. N- ], K; U& |& U
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
3 u7 R8 A, h, `% Y
. P$ V, a$ i7 {" b' n1 o人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' x$ q  \6 a0 Y+ Z/ J2 T' \
$ ~3 P- w( W# N& R
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区. q; S: @" K8 {& y* D
人在德国 社区" ]5 d% q* M# @- L# |
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."