[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% A* J) o) g8 z+ a$ ~$ V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. [8 [$ B3 ?# I; m6 u: g2 S3 F

3 J+ Q$ R+ x5 _3 o: c) F& ~* Y2 J  g/ K人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" V2 F! i) A6 W  s  M

& U8 M, p9 A8 K5 a$ U+ f人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de& m( T/ T) ^5 L  L0 H
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de+ \& f" k; B2 t  j' x3 d

7 p+ ?4 c0 Q  m9 O4 K; T( |! K/ `人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区* ]; D( i( J" j5 ~6 L' x
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de% C7 R2 x8 {, p# J. z3 O* q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % ?. X5 F, i" [6 J" M+ o9 {

" W' O8 r- ]. D+ y8 P1 O- v: vThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de# R9 l2 ?* ^# z7 Z0 `+ M# k- k! d& `
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 Q( o: }, }6 ~. pwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区# X! w, Z" t. n0 B; J% D

& l  s& w$ ?- e) d1 M, rwww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # a/ J. P$ _8 T9 l9 \

' Y, G$ i8 C, F( SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de# ]& F% _0 P+ \# C3 ~; B& @

0 O+ W7 U9 q' s  _% HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de* Y, J/ }* y4 F7 k8 Q  x1 y2 `& K

$ a. h, N" `: }6 yThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & m. U, K* ~/ J# Z( B
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."