[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- T1 _0 _6 t# }1 l' V
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 b, t& l) q) t' d6 v/ _+ ?$ f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 M( @6 L. b& B' d

9 m4 W8 k- t0 w& ^8 M8 J根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区' ^) ?, x5 U8 ^) N( m2 }, \  i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ M3 L! g: _0 MWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' / D! h8 w, V/ b2 G. {) }
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   K& z) e1 x6 E- M6 Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- ~8 k7 z* A4 N7 `( d: dBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% ^* z# ]: h0 F6 ^- {+ W' hLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 K  b1 v' l; ^" _, w
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' P( a7 J( X9 Q7 ~# T/ w- F4 qUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& H! W  l4 Y6 d, s2 t人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 r7 w: v* A8 B. z; x
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 q9 L" _5 v+ R0 r, j. r3 `
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. www.csuchen.de; R- @  k( L0 t" z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / Z' n. r! @7 `3 ~& S. G, R# T
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区& K, V" T3 r- x

$ q* w' `. I0 u$ g7 H& B7 wwww.csuchen.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."