[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" _# p* Q9 S5 ?5 \9 W6 I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 z* Q9 z0 r+ r1 s" g
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ \8 T: F9 p. D/ I7 }3 M6 |

$ F! m, f6 Z  cwww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& ?8 a5 d$ H  I7 b

) X. r# n0 I* ?; k# U1 \研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 Q5 B, x/ g  H5 ~: Y7 V9 q
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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" W# R6 m! G, m; R8 BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 J- B$ p9 D+ w0 d4 U; P, g5 n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 d0 a7 U: }8 g/ v$ ?( P1 awww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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) @$ Q. F# u) p; }/ W% jThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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0 u6 z- M0 c) f; Y2 m% \! BLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* M1 b7 `, j/ [" H+ l$ M2 w人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de5 g, {- ~1 t2 z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + N4 H) ]0 o0 O6 x* p! d
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区3 G4 b* v0 |- K7 A
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de: ^. w3 }& C$ Y' S7 \2 c* e

, p) u3 D" _7 W! ]0 V* R* e人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / a5 |; U9 z- C" N8 |0 z# L

+ O% w3 c; ?5 Y0 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 l% g4 a0 H& L
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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/ Y3 f/ P0 V7 G# r8 Twww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."