[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 J( W5 z/ u1 m, O  Y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 C  @5 T7 Y( g
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区6 r' U2 L- r# w

! P  Z6 J6 U( H9 c  L2 \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 l" r1 w% ?' b- V& Z0 wHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. ]0 \: G6 J0 b' g  s  k2 E人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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! \: ^6 S: |- S, K- C1 U4 E- ?人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; b; o# |0 }0 V, }3 mwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ V) C" c, e1 X9 b. }- ULead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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! g7 T  J$ B7 ~3 t0 e- I% I$ {8 U人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de/ K9 U9 e& r& N( \
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区* E4 i* M9 M" h" q7 W! f) ~% p
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区$ p& k0 |" ^6 {+ \
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Profession
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" t+ y# T# Z: m  b6 v% O0 nAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de% }9 y2 `. }2 |! |

8 ^0 R0 `5 w% j0 }/ ?& X, |www.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 8 Q$ V6 q2 [$ i) q

# W* s- H  [3 L4 _) o3 o9 T% rwww.csuchen.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 B, {! \' A0 i+ M: _) D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( u% n7 A6 L7 i! K- t

! Y2 Y1 G6 ~- j9 W$ g人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de  P0 O" a' g2 q/ ^+ f' e
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."