[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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2 j" {2 Z+ I, [" ?  x0 O据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ [# |; U9 t/ H% ?5 N' Y, g. h

8 j, j" o- S$ `3 t: }; Y研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" A# M4 q, m4 y( ?
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de. v  Y( E+ ]8 m) G9 [7 n" K1 e

+ @: q0 d2 V8 e0 I研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# U" ?5 h- o' B8 J
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区0 {2 g/ W' `1 j9 c" J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ P; L; F3 G* U' q2 Z0 z) XPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de; {2 X, Y9 h; r8 L' X- o
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 I4 a% W6 L9 a9 @; M
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' x7 q/ x/ F/ A, t; QSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区- x0 ]% x$ b9 l, T3 a, ^0 X
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 G8 l6 [  S0 `
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 ]3 q; Z2 Y' I& y9 d! @人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) C0 j; V: C- b& u' m7 C1 M4 W" J
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."