[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. ~  p! Y# `( B7 K- B" p: y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 v' l* F4 q, ^  A1 j& [( ^0 c. z( E

. e) |% X. I6 ?% e# J研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de% ?8 I( f, U8 i; }# ^

  }6 S+ t5 A  d. T" ^, cWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# z, m+ h" D4 N$ p! I# sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区/ _: t9 J" ?% f" S. C1 w
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 h) o% K$ @; {2 f6 F0 y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / L; K6 @9 J' d9 d- \

% f1 f! n0 ~: A: K8 d9 D9 ]/ O"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ I1 Y3 p* d5 j& w" J' G+ J' hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . S" t1 }# x4 J  q( Y% [" W2 q

6 J6 L5 `$ |# `7 W" g3 D6 F$ S  ZSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区( N# [/ Q% {9 z* t, F8 \

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" m! [6 _0 [5 z, X6 A人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * D6 R- G/ D' f

/ K* `+ z  E9 ?- @Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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+ G2 v  d+ |/ {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de7 }  M- ^* I' y

# ^4 [; }$ G0 T" u6 I6 q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."