[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 F  E" w! ]8 E: J; L$ @8 x: h# Y4 K; a

& ^2 y( ?& S0 J9 l0 D: X据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de+ t7 A: s+ O4 W# R
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# E( O6 U/ i& Z9 X

/ V! @. Z% y3 x根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. www.csuchen.de. G; x2 }0 q# v- J8 A5 j- Z" k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - i, S! r" }# K5 w5 w. ?- `  O6 }

. b. C9 H5 w" t1 ^3 S; \+ f7 ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 n& l+ w8 B) B2 D" e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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- C7 n4 N! m' B"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   m6 A" i+ S1 f4 o  \/ r% d& \; e' f

$ Y5 n0 Z( K3 B3 KUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' c$ D8 M+ M4 c5 q- s. |8 Xwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : e9 g7 x$ f. P1 }4 E$ Y0 ?4 M

* F* ~) T+ N& [# y6 LThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; k, b: T; A5 a& bThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区/ T# i( x7 p( |7 x8 h6 j

( S# y7 A( z6 z6 e6 H* h3 pBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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( N9 b0 Q2 w# C7 t$ K! L: T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 E' P* \- D# ~8 l"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."