[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ L7 E* G$ |$ h: t9 C

+ E* k7 b* C) b- w- H/ r# h3 M" R) c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区* C' B. `% E8 H  s- b. b, a) [
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de. j. r5 |3 j: G8 X4 y! s( c

' O2 t" a, h, N6 v" G1 m8 g根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 p( o; m1 R" W+ m

$ B& J, x! A( o( R研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ X" L: O  f5 Q0 D, WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ _/ p: G" j8 Z( IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , U5 T7 s9 q* w8 z

) n: b& }1 l# ~9 H8 `) S0 sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " Q% C7 P  U3 T0 r- F2 t
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / w. a- i% p1 x% M1 x8 [

# b. t: |. D8 O+ Y0 ^"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, n) p3 D9 `$ q5 J! n. V9 QUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 Y3 w5 r( ~' t! M" N' zSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / W1 U- l4 F2 A
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 P- ]' M' a9 |9 t% j7 Z  q9 y

4 M( |/ \8 f0 ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de; Z4 l% e2 I; G$ v& L) e- Y; H* @" ^
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # B( i% F3 X* u# h

; i: `; s* I7 N9 t8 {But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % b( i. Q2 z3 v" d
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."