[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 S* u1 w( t/ b: o1 }/ @

) X* K4 J. S# _* W% j7 \人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# C& x! n8 f! U: _2 F' J% M3 T9 e

& T2 q8 y) f& bwww.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de2 k/ [& [" U% E, r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。: Z4 r; p+ H1 v7 w

' E3 B$ y# o0 A; A" `/ d) nWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + e+ c& R) w4 o) L9 ], `* H; n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + {# L7 N3 n8 x$ l

1 {$ c5 ~! k/ d0 b人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区2 Q5 n3 d% Z2 k/ S6 W: U. W
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 V; K' d- D: [* h  D+ t人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 \: g2 o5 y1 E
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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9 t7 K8 W5 @6 s2 v' H( V( c. q3 K"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de8 O+ m; i  A" P4 \( V* b! S1 ]
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ ^5 K" w5 i4 u( u8 @- j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' b5 m9 t7 a$ O; }www.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 ?% a: Y- F  ?; H8 s; |

4 l% {6 T9 p! ?9 WThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 F0 w4 S. X0 W+ R$ N2 f! c

7 v3 B; }8 s; VBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 B5 B4 [: p6 |人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  d% }8 O. s2 o. i# F"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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% n! Y1 }! p* v$ A"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."