[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 a8 U. p  n/ k3 c8 u6 X, y- [/ }
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 y8 I0 j0 Z6 X7 v) _
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: u4 {. A8 A+ G3 |# r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. M" ^( `, L! H4 R, z  mWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' & ~) W0 z$ x! a1 U; D% ^
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- K4 G7 ]7 G+ C, l6 Z' Awww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & e# Q: Y: y7 t7 U* v
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区2 b2 u: a0 e. R: E% i+ |6 ]* s

% M* H8 Q3 J; twww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( B; }" P. u8 J: [3 Z
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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9 K. p/ e5 C* m- l( S# _"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; M& u7 c" t6 P1 l! I" L+ l人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 5 V: W$ r4 }' Y2 m, o! N7 O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) q* I& `$ C) \1 h, B( D; o2 u/ KThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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2 y0 L: s8 L) D9 V4 u: j"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , P8 \, U( P$ O, h# E9 v
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."