[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 w2 \9 }( ~: x( b$ {; Y1 g2 _$ r  J, g
www.csuchen.de' G/ P0 t& ?$ x# ~
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de3 f9 }9 h2 r- ~1 d3 I: |

8 Q0 t* P9 g  Q: Y0 f( n( r! \6 s( x人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! H* @. y" ^# I' l7 |( o1 @

1 j% u( a' T# O! ^: b, k6 `" J) _: h根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
" m, N* T9 T( e3 r
9 j8 t# }: Q3 c2 @研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# p( B' C$ t" X+ S
& n" O& W" R* H) {. W; ?5 `
Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
3 ^$ z  X! ^9 n6 x, k% q  }( n人在德国 社区
9 H# z3 [7 ?2 D6 W2 Gwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 x4 _  B* R" V. s; k0 aPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
% N6 l2 S* V. }2 k0 Q1 {2 E- R" r- H1 N
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
  c' r( S& `2 {5 {6 a6 u9 u/ G
% W1 q* N  Y4 M. i9 Z* K6 p5 [人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + x' |5 |" E3 n( d
9 b) r* L+ [* g; }/ ~  A
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
5 {/ n+ l# J$ Y9 W  Y
+ w7 o2 `" u3 j, S- p& `1 F8 i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de! [1 F' v' n" m( A" z
人在德国 社区4 Q/ w+ a  l6 o% U
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de% B+ i3 I) k9 f8 y2 }5 }

: D; v. l6 ~% Q, k3 R8 R% v" uwww.csuchen.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de' s2 H3 d; Y7 s/ x/ J; M

: c' l# y2 u7 B+ t1 E! |9 g9 DSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区% J8 P1 m# z. x1 ^  h! n: X
9 \5 V( H( I! c- h% b
Profession www.csuchen.de$ A* a: @5 J  ]7 Z0 V0 u1 D9 t( M2 }, Z

8 C& s$ D3 K% c+ zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * P( }: x8 r% }! s$ A- h7 }2 l
" I8 h' t: I3 p1 O/ w, j
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 ^" e1 r% k) A
% G8 f: g- \6 s: Q, c; ~
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 |: s* Z2 a& C  R) m- \. Q

' _8 a# \8 L7 |$ PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % X: G; L' Y- q
www.csuchen.de; u' |1 Z6 _2 W" S5 i& U: i1 w
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
- ]2 M7 L; D5 U! `, ~0 j2 F/ f4 J3 f; K9 a, O$ _8 r0 ^
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
; X6 I7 P( L- c# {; W  V& o1 w2 f7 l4 k+ G% t- u0 c( L! E, U9 u
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."