[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 ~) q. S; T4 U( L! u! {
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 R/ t  Y9 f4 k

" X& p4 Q0 v+ I3 ?" q& d. Ywww.csuchen.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; e) J9 ]/ k# U* h/ M% n
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, G  r6 }! X% @& W
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - H- O- h! \' F- l% M0 W: Q& j' Z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% Q( L& [1 _9 d6 YPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de3 l+ F# m& D8 ^8 g

. e, w7 w0 s" n& _8 G/ P0 e: \人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ c3 o/ F: P2 r5 O% @+ u9 I5 xLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区1 ]2 ?" v1 p  [5 l
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 \8 }* T! [. l6 W* k, a

/ A9 T  u/ q0 W& t8 z) N3 `3 r# RUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' e! u( S: S* Q/ W* D+ k) Hwww.csuchen.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 D$ H" Y5 D! q! i8 x4 e- [

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # U5 _2 @) O6 y% a8 U- s8 }; }
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) n" R* z# B4 ]" C' s% I3 l, f6 [Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' V, |4 n' y: @4 k4 c人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 u+ f6 ?( d! P& s

5 i9 O8 C/ ^& I/ a1 u# z! G  b: e& ~"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."