[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 z$ P  p+ [, d) y: r, f
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: J/ M2 W( O( s, x% E" \/ I研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. a! O% S3 ?: m% j9 x$ }
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   e( s4 E8 d) u% o1 I9 g

* x0 r' \6 d$ U, @9 d* v2 d) O% t7 m1 BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; `3 a0 s9 l# b' e1 G4 Awww.csuchen.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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6 @; z5 r! r1 L% h5 J2 Fwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de2 Y1 q0 f- @; x7 z% x- [  `

. G- y0 J/ a4 d0 X8 KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' E6 x' i$ ~  f- l4 a8 [0 y; A
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区. U7 V  \: b" z+ _! f' I4 Z

; f& ]; a% W3 ?& X0 C" a4 g6 y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de) K1 g; h0 y& K+ b9 P( d
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   i2 y$ L8 R/ S4 v/ I. [' \1 k
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区' K1 M, G8 E1 I: m5 y- W  u

5 l& b1 ^) V0 V3 gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 8 ]# t1 Y  K8 k6 S* B5 @
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区) O% N' V) l4 Z* o

+ F% K! U8 i9 w  T" yBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区' o3 h$ x% F4 Q; e# }$ |

, Q: `+ |- f6 ?8 q, nIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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( C+ a% T. y" d" ?( l人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."