[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 F1 [  s5 C; x# m

) u. \  a# h: e7 d人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区5 |3 ?3 S- V2 ~! l& u0 p

5 B. K; L6 q" c$ _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 k( i9 C6 A+ s0 C
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # Y8 W9 e3 J! ]1 T1 j" G. z/ ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 P5 Q2 ?6 N1 F( w( B0 @

  j; G1 X2 \  c9 |9 g; s1 W人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; z* ?+ O3 y% z. _

% ^- k7 D1 A1 Xwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! F0 o% S+ Q! S" J
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 @4 l7 M7 v5 O6 n. _( {5 R! u
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  {- n. ]% m; b1 ~人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de0 J$ C" [' V9 R& d$ T

2 o) X% S3 s. K. d5 `  ~* lUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 Z3 D! r( J: w7 c2 f( H( T5 F

/ A' c6 ?# H* s  I4 uSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / O9 @: s# w1 l8 I

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1 J9 r6 R6 b8 G# u+ V- @& RAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区5 v9 j4 H8 s; `2 R+ l

6 c1 ]" w1 @, V* |7 uwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   w! L4 f4 F- g- V

/ e, ^& H# q) C8 B# B6 fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 f9 {! S2 \* k- Y, ?( D+ Z' |9 bBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区- B6 ?; E& A# ]& `0 e2 T% a- H

; x, j0 A- N0 S0 Y( j人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de# h! }8 a. L$ Z# g" Q% t  ^. K0 S
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de. @0 W7 v2 ]6 ^7 `% _# T; H7 K

6 s# M( ?" D# @; L5 C人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."