[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 Z1 q+ P9 }6 T! Q& l0 l! |研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 M) J5 [; T1 b, c/ M1 h8 o
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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  k7 f; a1 O" ?# [* _" NWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de" _/ Z- P2 }8 v8 _' J8 }0 B
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ]4 p) ^8 A, [% QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 p6 C7 U+ I( Q

: ?; F! ~$ u3 D. r4 Xwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区2 w0 A1 U; p# ~7 i, B& W; i$ ]

3 r: o+ p$ i7 bThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' l3 w' r, a0 }) e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 w+ p1 \3 P  d2 z* V
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 E8 s+ Q& p. \) t2 D* pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   }8 _4 n6 b/ A- {" T  P3 X1 e; F
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' F  Z4 U1 H" [' wThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 G' X; m/ R2 y0 s% A2 h  g

5 t9 h% p# K9 a% ^9 q: _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - A9 E/ w! k$ B( P& |8 g
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( ~7 r1 Q0 l) N: `
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区( c$ S% B& e0 z- U# w9 g( T
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."