[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。, r6 J% I' j5 n  J

& G5 [1 o4 H0 W/ A' ~据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de3 X! }* U1 t9 \3 @, b2 r7 G

( q0 G$ h: K. a% R& c9 ~7 x研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de$ l5 K5 A8 r$ a0 r1 X5 q7 _" \

( k1 S: z: n: p6 J3 W+ p2 Jwww.csuchen.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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& H  I1 N! S' F2 n$ s5 S* m研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; F4 U! k0 v) K8 b+ Q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区& }* o7 A. b8 A  p7 t

$ Q) P& n. {" s* p8 zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * i4 E6 O  J  h) H; ]$ A
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. F' X$ I) C) o! t" @" N/ ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 k2 ^" p( \, q. Y" I

% r! O! S2 a# D4 m; A' Q: y2 m" _人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区& b" `( v# w( M5 b8 @7 I0 U
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* d& q& a; f/ r/ J" G, U0 ~& M$ TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & \9 I; z2 i8 U" R1 v. d

* c6 [7 B% d3 z' |3 R8 ]人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ g- s" x. ]4 ~) EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' Y! a/ M0 Q/ J

' o; S" V# b; u8 ]( a人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de6 h; N, m9 G4 y

/ b$ g: f1 D: x: D1 T" JBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. . S+ n+ A! ]. B: x( J
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + J$ s& T: |1 z( n4 g5 ]4 m: o
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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