[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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( s/ d$ g: |' q6 [1 i8 \据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# R  N1 W8 S' Z; H

: V* H5 h$ o( C3 P$ R研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: G1 K0 `: K$ B9 C
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 M7 p- M0 s* m' c0 }! m' W6 I研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ z3 R5 v1 C- k& j人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) @/ w( I! n) R7 b

' k, d8 t( Y4 ?& kwww.csuchen.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 ?7 z# F7 L& `
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) O" H0 Y/ g. Y) `# l% D' N

( z- @& ^) A: W" B" D) ^人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区1 ?0 n- V" \* N: f7 m2 z

$ b" P. t( F. f/ o! D" D人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   y4 o# P& Q) j! Q) W: y8 @: k! T

3 r% c3 F6 x, x8 C& ?8 ?' ILead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' `5 {6 F* x# ?$ x& O+ H
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区+ Y; q2 F# x- [3 C, l  B! s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de; `9 V1 X# {( c" H' h: y$ p: {4 m

  s1 [( U( \& jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % r1 Y+ j; a1 J! [* Z  _4 b2 r( y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de" m! a" f. v$ Y8 k1 ?: v7 z  \

% L* k, D2 P. T$ ^  `  \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. www.csuchen.de6 Q- m3 c2 M$ j) J
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " {; M: N% y  f+ W/ Y. ^

. t1 u; P0 a" g: D9 |9 B. k"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."