[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# G  ?% N) K- S8 K

! O. d: {5 z# U0 w% {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。www.csuchen.de6 e% P. Y; q: w
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! G- f+ n, Z! C& J  e& o4 I  P- u; P根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ e5 h* }, P" l. q) e2 _, L# WHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- q/ v$ W* N- y2 i$ nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * P0 a# `3 h! w2 ]

7 [, _8 m7 C& }The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 J1 o! i. F  q, a4 |* ]8 |8 kLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , z( X2 u7 T7 t- H$ s$ c

( [8 j  C0 h0 `5 l; }5 }7 g+ n: }www.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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' h5 [; D- b/ Z4 H& k* \+ u人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. www.csuchen.de! K9 b% N6 I. s6 q4 _; F- P
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. www.csuchen.de; N5 u; t7 ]0 S: Z! b4 ^9 Y

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + ^1 W5 v! \8 B+ f6 \$ W
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & E- d  n: E/ z, v' P+ H+ W7 x  ~
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区  w( n2 w7 ~$ Q' a4 i- c5 `; l- z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de. i, E9 g  Q7 K* k& B
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."