[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 H  j. N7 {) o% X0 K8 U2 g人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ D6 G) b0 T- M8 B人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 r' f6 u% t# N' i& l2 V
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。www.csuchen.de6 R1 I% Z6 O% @7 a! e, O1 \

* r' T5 K. G  vWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 Q8 i4 j; }9 I人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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, B& H" W& I- iBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' }. O+ e& ?. YThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 _7 P# m7 p. rLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 S. V+ e# w. x9 b4 g6 a" ^; z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& H6 |/ m2 C1 k1 j$ e0 LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # v' v6 {; F2 K: D. m3 J
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , m$ i5 L" ~, g5 B

, A0 n7 m: v+ ~/ _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区: L$ C0 i. j+ N. z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 |: n  `3 G) V/ R+ i5 Y4 r" h& ]

5 P$ }! h) \( J* ?" V2 t- _) q0 B" X2 o"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."