[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' d0 O- z2 }& {9 }, ^5 f1 P7 U+ \
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ C8 R9 z' W% N
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* X; _# p4 ~$ Q4 O9 r7 d
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ `9 ]& _# w) E; X8 [- D: PPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 c% ~0 d2 t$ B+ z
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 x$ M% C. z5 W7 [

5 R- m+ E: H9 o/ O4 ~- I( JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区# j0 u" v% R1 i7 _. T+ [

" s! t5 K# i# o"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 ^8 ]+ q% x# a

) g' [, d1 w; L. b- q5 }"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # X! Q/ g! ~2 Q$ U$ _3 h

8 _2 F3 R+ w2 T" S, ^3 aSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 s7 p4 @) u/ D: F- {4 [www.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, j/ z! a" H& U- {! a$ N# R& xwww.csuchen.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' Y0 @' m' y" J- r5 U6 ^, \

. s4 [4 y9 [2 I4 B8 Q+ D  a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."