[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。www.csuchen.de* ~$ g- W& N3 \, z2 q8 Q

: T% L8 P5 w5 l( l) W5 x据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! f" e0 w! l4 }" i根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 }0 |. B+ @, `) i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区0 f. l7 _$ l! W' L$ }

3 m- h1 W4 o$ n5 p9 N  YHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区6 y; ~* U% H, g- M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 u% n* U2 ~0 [8 _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 U! ?$ P1 k. x
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de' K1 Z, p9 A7 ]7 H5 g2 A" [

( g) g. p) I# y& N, m+ ~* ^) F# f人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de) K4 V$ w2 s$ K/ Z7 z) a

" ?' ?4 f4 q! n, ~9 v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * t; z2 F' A. u1 q) F5 X
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 ^2 z6 G& X6 x4 F
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7 b$ N! e6 l5 L) y& ~. U$ C人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : |8 \. e* X4 |$ X5 l$ m- @6 q8 c* G
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区7 s8 R+ s$ Q) c
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. www.csuchen.de+ \8 C- t* S5 F/ w+ U
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de& K, h, |7 ?1 _2 `# |

& l2 O- `! e/ J- j8 N3 F* i; M( Bwww.csuchen.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."