[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) e; ]! X% x: l2 U+ K
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ s9 I$ }+ N6 R, W% E' W  S6 }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 o; Y4 }$ ]. u" r  z. B
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 F5 v$ b2 o$ Q9 o. G- G# ]0 c
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- {  ?4 L& w6 q: Z* F0 w- U, z5 E3 s人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . q0 C7 ^) E$ k3 t, ?+ r, R) N$ n9 M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' f/ ]6 Z& [, d+ P8 y7 C7 f3 NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 v. G0 F& P2 R- b6 k2 [3 }- AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * k, S. @; ]3 Y# r) O4 K
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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' p$ l* G! z8 }  P! O  `www.csuchen.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; _$ c) P' m* s0 gUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ c* v  ]4 ]" R' G8 y" u6 c: u
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. www.csuchen.de! I: h- \/ K: r) n( M1 a* I* d$ t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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  ?' N$ l" A1 E% F人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % L, j+ l) S. y7 {; |4 J; ?

- o  i2 |; [' i- Q人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. www.csuchen.de, B! @7 P+ v, P1 p

! C5 }2 J, z  ^1 q( n人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. www.csuchen.de+ J0 d) U% [% l
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."