[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区. Z3 v9 _6 i1 k- a+ C- e4 u

& P9 i: e  G) O6 c' o% kwww.csuchen.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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, C* w, J, b) T3 r2 F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。www.csuchen.de& O' A4 K- r5 H" J% Q' v
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- M+ A7 V2 s0 k7 o3 U  a研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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* k5 Z" C3 z4 X. v; M; C- XHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- U; l: V$ ]6 x9 P" K0 hPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 ^% l( q5 t. ~0 T4 o6 _7 b' R& MBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 {$ {8 B9 D+ j" J# p* CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de  V3 }- i/ y8 N; o8 b

& ?' X- |4 G- yLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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* A4 C2 i2 m9 Y* q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 [# i8 f5 c- @5 ]( i* h# F& O"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区/ K: ^! e/ Y% _5 ~! z6 b+ p3 Z8 \

7 @- |0 F5 D5 U& F1 L# JUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区2 W4 f# Z8 D# u; N) J

2 i( W+ [: a7 mSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , X9 G$ ]1 W0 |. X) `) t) G
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: o  q2 l% g) u  D3 BAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 T1 r5 v) J3 p8 w& ]6 t1 Z

" g$ X) |# k; XThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. www.csuchen.de. L1 ^$ ^( }. _: ~. ~3 g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) b! V3 a( O) h# j" e  I: b* T

1 G: h: ^& v) s" x& w( u( g2 }+ lBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. $ G9 o, J3 a0 [$ |
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 [& y0 C  E% t8 @

* _! g2 B$ n) Q9 O"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."