[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% C/ ^, c. C: {) R. O/ _据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  v9 I- ]: y! O1 T
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区- N) T( C# t6 P0 d5 s0 H

& [$ Q! n# a8 X3 z) Z+ s0 X9 f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ b8 k7 ?! p% p$ E3 Z* I1 Y, R$ d

: V* T& @& d' G! m研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 W( k, K8 L3 E2 F9 F
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区& b1 ^6 K, ~9 A" z) {( r* O
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: n$ U( E/ i1 F- I/ ]. Y+ {Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 j8 _9 t. Z9 G% J, s( T/ E
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : h$ A" H& k$ s) H" {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % I( l1 d. {5 u! }* c7 q$ D

( A( X3 M0 B: A: Bwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区) g4 \! x& V! D9 q* i" H

3 K: Q* D$ U8 Y! }. E) dUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 w' C' n$ g9 [- j: o5 H

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区" h/ v, @6 i3 A+ r5 o8 c

: G" ]5 @6 L' X" G" w/ z! {' owww.csuchen.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( b. D4 k8 W0 ~7 _

) c- ]5 u7 C! e1 i% ~" z3 R/ X1 @Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- n6 @4 {8 z4 K1 w7 a/ Q! I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."