[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。www.csuchen.de5 Q3 S, }* V6 @3 T7 `

- b  {8 _2 Y$ }; q) C据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* R8 \' ]* d* L6 n4 }3 u研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区; t7 j# D0 T8 ^3 A

$ D2 u" r9 U/ E( Z1 _4 P7 u根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 p( p% w6 T/ |; |7 [
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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( F: L$ D& {& J9 m  b7 qwww.csuchen.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, w7 |7 X8 ]% V* n9 ?2 OHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! v7 T( Q$ ]& W" l+ N; _
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 H# h0 m1 |4 [3 E
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. www.csuchen.de* p/ y. E/ ^2 e- x( y; h5 A
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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9 o1 ~- |5 b5 @: P( _人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. www.csuchen.de; [' L, w! q3 @' l2 D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 {( b  b# \6 I7 sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 E) @% A  Z: K( d! [2 X9 U
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! l5 b8 d9 W  J' {7 ?4 c
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; Y1 h  r* c0 ^4 w; \. uAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 p. ], ]- a* E+ J6 [' dThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ Q/ o( h% S$ O* S2 |* g
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 k7 y+ `. A2 H8 a( p7 m1 v1 O8 N

8 B$ c% y7 ]8 V# e5 Y) [人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区+ n# I3 H% a! N: F% N
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区, z5 \& _3 {# e

; h( m, @) y" G, n, f人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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