[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。www.csuchen.de2 b3 N) Z8 o  x6 I3 f* a8 F5 ~
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 `. I1 a4 @( g1 F1 q  @& u

$ M( z: K: l1 l研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* H5 C8 J6 c3 i  g3 b+ b

( l$ B0 w$ G1 {根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 P  ]1 u0 ^6 a% X6 H9 M" F- x1 V
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / Q/ M0 U3 r. H* i& ?

: }0 H, S* Y& p* }6 V  [人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 n& z0 t, G  a, i6 O- F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & b* `/ K6 K( K; k
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区9 L) r; F0 A# \0 f, w9 Z+ l

2 N! E' w& Z3 K/ e* aLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 {3 l8 Z: Y6 s. ]# w) P/ o. Q

4 B+ B, x9 _1 d) _; d8 T( zwww.csuchen.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 \: n2 G/ `: v+ ]6 \( t

: S- u$ M3 q. D) ?7 s3 d/ V% A5 J" \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , h7 ~) A0 [$ a3 T* ~
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 ?- m7 p8 z3 b8 F$ qSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( Z4 B% K9 ^" ?  C! P; J+ L8 d# i7 Iwww.csuchen.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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; S3 p6 Y& k) x" _3 [Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : f& f3 Q/ @7 @- |: z: x
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."