[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。www.csuchen.de" H* d4 ~" w' Q5 H/ d, j8 V0 |! X

' J* f+ a) c1 z# E据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 K9 {# Z, O/ c4 W
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 z. M1 E" }# |" _* U( y, W研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: k3 \- u0 Z9 Y) D/ {3 M人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. www.csuchen.de& I+ F1 ]6 d- k. A

: u) A7 L( O$ j' l& [www.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 [4 B- }3 R+ x. G6 u: U; f/ Pwww.csuchen.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 h, I" v, b0 G, S  G6 o

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5 F! u8 s6 J* }, g8 K"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . U4 \" `8 S8 i/ D( a2 j' E) v: A

+ Z4 G. Q3 S4 H' {Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. & e2 q* C& z- @4 O

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5 t4 L2 V8 A1 {/ K人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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. [" H- ]. U1 pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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9 [# S+ x! [' a/ N! g0 M- |. OBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * G# l, v" j: R6 j

8 _5 @$ Q; W5 l$ _Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % J6 K) z+ v# ~: `
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! L- h/ O1 z8 e
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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