[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% W  S' ]7 K: [

9 t# s6 ?& d' k  {. W; F人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 }4 B* h9 ]( k- a8 f
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。www.csuchen.de' @+ Z$ e  ?( L& n, k4 |
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' www.csuchen.de3 c+ ?% c7 Z0 s" p$ _( o9 U7 z

, {4 R: _# Q  ~6 T3 T  M3 i( i( Z人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区; M# X# i5 q* K' K* `
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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  ]5 b3 \2 ?5 p/ e$ q9 p0 Uwww.csuchen.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; O$ o& d) Z8 R0 e6 a6 AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) a6 g4 p, D3 f% W1 w+ H9 [
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 i2 c) T3 A+ Y9 ~3 ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% R3 A3 P& o* Y' x$ p) W9 {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." www.csuchen.de$ Q- ]1 O/ Y- H6 o
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , Q/ j1 \# t6 Q& u! C+ z0 }, P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 b2 o. w+ ~3 ]2 ?

% p6 [) T4 v- {6 Y6 @. AThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : p0 k6 ?6 u8 O9 a: e8 \6 I

& i% m8 ?% b- ~5 z/ _% [( vBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) l9 V: v' f. m* L5 a- Q9 p' m1 T- Z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. www.csuchen.de+ }% {+ l, L5 Y5 z% f1 K; A4 A
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 r$ T( U( n" g: E2 c
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."