[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 o6 V$ @6 }  G% \8 i, Y+ E
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区# w% |% O* D. m' _
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! E+ t6 i8 r6 L, n5 F' ?& u根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区! Y, K8 ^8 M. |& y' \/ U* H" T! O% _
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 j4 C( Y& X4 }7 f9 \High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 W; R0 K1 e& Q( J1 l( ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; V0 M1 N% z/ \3 U% Q
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 s( G! y& S& l+ S: D

2 o/ X5 ~+ \2 I' O2 v3 z( lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 d6 l' K, _4 M9 W5 U人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # h( [) E+ v+ w! P9 N. s& J

0 l3 B' f5 h" y; S$ v' t人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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4 s7 T. p, A; }* c人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! C0 U' t) H! Z; D9 iAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ O6 v$ H. J( R3 \人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 e! b) z1 D! o' P% X; e  b- v

0 E; [% ?8 ^8 k$ S0 aThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 u; y( Z% s: G$ v6 {6 i" Pwww.csuchen.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' G# `: c. z1 T6 x6 P7 A"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; ?2 S3 M) n# x# l2 ?7 X2 m

% s4 r5 L( E3 p$ u; L, s"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."